ok so heres the thing,theres this person im "dating" ,we didnt really talk much online,cause we talk irl and mess and i asked them the other day if we was tg and i got this answer,"not exactly......idk either......i guess we are in between or smth......idk what to call it "well they flirt we me and mess ,making it seem like we tg but,they also flirt with other ppl mess be ticking me off,but i aint her bf so i cant tell her what she can and cant do (at this point idk if we tg or not so i cant really say i aint her bf)
its just bs on my half,she would happily flirt with someone but as soon as i even have the idea it just gets frowned upon,like im tryin my living best to make Pie own out for me and her,i just want to f'ing have a relationship with no probs,like if she dont like me anymore i f'ing wanna know now,not later when i willin to drop everything for her,just for her to drop my f'ing heart,i just dont understand,like idk if im f'ing mental or Soupin slow,like ik i aint a good lookin person,ik i aint a fun person to be around all the Pizzain time,but i want to f'ing feel like i was worth something,like im so fr i need her ah to dump me,or to f'ing tell me we are tg,i dont wanna go with this confusion running around like a chicken with its head chopped off (a vent)

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ok so heres the thing,theres this person im "dating" ,we didnt really talk much online,cause we talk irl and mess and i asked them the other day if we was tg and i got this answer,"not exactly......idk either......i guess we are in between or smth......idk what to call it "well they flirt we me and mess ,making it seem like we tg but,they also flirt with other ppl mess be ticking me off,but i aint her bf so i cant tell her what she can and cant do (at this point idk if we tg or not so i cant really say i aint her bf)
its just bs on my half,she would happily flirt with someone but as soon as i even have the idea it just gets frowned upon,like im tryin my living best to make Pie own out for me and her,i just want to f'ing have a relationship with no probs,like if she dont like me anymore i f'ing wanna know now,not later when i willin to drop everything for her,just for  her to drop my f'ing heart,i just dont understand,like idk if im f'ing mental or Soupin slow,like ik i aint a good lookin person,ik i aint a fun person to be around all the Pizzain time,but i want to f'ing feel like i was worth something,like im so fr i need her ah to dump me,or to f'ing tell me we are tg,i dont wanna go with this confusion running around like a chicken with its head chopped off (a vent)

minustempo · Answer

Just say you want it to be official and if she doesn't just end it

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

@minustempo wrote:

Just say you want it to be official and if she doesn't just end it

thats the point you aint getting,we were official

minustempo · Answer

Just ask again then

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

@minustempo wrote:

Just ask again then

i did ask,yesterday

minustempo · Answer

ask as in tell her that you want it to be, not ask if you two are

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

@minustempo wrote:

ask as in tell her that you want it to be, not ask if you two are

your making no sense bro-

Luna34 · Answer

So, she's saying that she never knew y'all we're dating?

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

@luna34 wrote:

So, she's saying that she never knew y'all we're dating?

no she knows we were

Luna34 · Answer

So.. why is she flirting with other dudes?.. Thats basically cheating

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

@luna34 wrote:

So.. why is she flirting with other dudes?.. Thats basically cheating

dudes nah,girls,like she even comes out her mouth and saids her wife ,atfirst i thought iw as a joke and shi yk girls lol,but i found out by goin through her email,which i shouldnt have done- that she gave my fav hoodie to her "wife" then her "wife" said i know u dont love him,like tf u mean-

Luna34 · Answer

yeah that's pretty flippin messed up. giving someone else your bf's hoodie? that's not ok.

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

@luna34 wrote:

yeah that's pretty flippin messed up. giving someone else your bf's hoodie? that's not ok.

yea was p!ssed at that mess cause i didnt see why she did it-

Luna34 · Answer

Now.. if this was me, I would say dump her. 🤷

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

@luna34 wrote:

Now.. if this was me, I would say dump her. 🤷

shi i would but i aint the person to dump ppl,im the person to get dumped

Luna34 · Answer

...that used to be me. But sometimes its fine to dump someone. (even tho I only did it once)

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

i dumped someone once,but it aint good for me mentally

Luna34 · Answer

ohh ok.. I just say confirm with her one more time

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

confiirm what,if i may ask? if we still tg? if we just gonna end it? or if we gonna just go back to being friends?

Luna34 · Answer

All. That's just to confirm.

Graysonunderwoods · Answer

alr

Luna34 · Answer

👍👍👍

RAVEN69 · Answer

I would tell her how you feel because communication is key help her understand how ya feel

CecePitbull · Answer

@graysonunderwoods wrote:

@luna34 wrote:

So.. why is she flirting with other dudes?.. Thats basically cheating

dudes nah,girls,like she even comes out her mouth and saids her wife ,atfirst i thought iw as a joke and shi yk girls lol,but i found out by goin through her email,which i shouldnt have done- that she gave my fav hoodie to her "wife" then her "wife" said i know u dont love him,like tf u mean-

i was about to disagree till i saw the hoodie thing. HOW COULD SHE WHAT END IT. i call my friends wifie ect and hug them but i would never give away my boyfriends stuff. im sorry that happened but im pretty sure thats not good she's probably manipulating you. i would end it before he ends it with you badly.