Question

can anyone help with my psychological problem??? not related with studies.. any volunteers???

Answer 1

what is it????

Answer 2

thanx for joining....

Answer 3

I know its a weird problem....but pls try to understand...will you?

Answer 4

what is it abt?

Answer 5

I am full of fear right now...Whenever I talk to anyone they make me feel like if I am looking at their legs or wrong areas. I am afraid to talk to anyone about this...Whenever I am walking down the road...I m fearful that I should look upright...but that illusion has just taken over my mind...What do I do?

Answer 6

Moreover, I have no friends...and oviously no girlfriend...I m living away from my family who expect huge for me...I m 25 yrs old...

Answer 7

pls advice anyone here with a heart?

Answer 8

i would really like to help you i would say just face it and go with it

Answer 9

but I know I m making mistakes in looking at people because these bad thoughts are still in my mind...so I would not lie that I dont ...but I REALLY DONT WANT TO...

Answer 10

first of all you should find why people feel that you r looking at the wrong areas----maybe unconsciously yr eyes are focussing on the wrong areas, it can happen when u have never developed friendship with girls...

Answer 11

dont look just look at the eyes when ur speaking to someone

Answer 12

i would suggest you go for some counselling........
at your age professional help will be the best. I feel that there r other issues involved here. Unless all issues are brought out into the open, analysed and brought to order, things will not improve....

Answer 13

i can not find out why people feel that I might be or I am ....WHY IS IT ME ?? WHY? people call me shy, they call me wingspan, they call me idiot...fine ...i can bear these insults but why God has given me another illusion which will never leave me

Answer 14

maybe it leads you to something good

Answer 15

all you lack is self confidence

Answer 16

just like our house gets cobwebs and they remain till they are removed, your mind also has these cobwebs which can b removed by professional help, so go to a good source for psycho-therapy

Answer 17

No I dont think I would do that because that will make me an official patient....and its gonna increase my problem because I m giving more importance to it

Answer 18

you got to have a high opinion obout you

Answer 19

high opinion??? alone??? I literally have no one to speak to...the contact list in my phone is empty...there is nothing in me which is gud...

Answer 20

sre you working or studying ?

Answer 21

are*

Answer 22

I keep talking to myself whenever I am alone...I am working and studying both

Answer 23

try to top in your class and impress your boss

Answer 24

I m studying at university....

Answer 25

anyways thanx for your help...would you have anything else to say..like if you were at my position?

Answer 26

never keep anything in your heart if you are depressed cry away and you will feel light

Answer 27

thanx....

Answer 28

:)

Answer 29

anytym

Answer 30

where is the button to vote for good anwer

Answer 31

on its right.........

Answer 32

cud not find it

Answer 33

going to a doctor in this case doesn't make you a patient, it will make you a more mature, confident and better person..........
if only we cud analyse our own brain then we would not have such problems...

Answer 34

if u hv a heart-disease or cancer, will u ignore it as u do not want to give it importance or will go for professional help.....

Answer 35

its not about being patient either....its like I should talk or think about it as less as possible....its like my mind is a different person, and I dont want to make him a big deal

Answer 36

thats the thing, its not aphysical problem

Answer 37

well its up to u..........
i had a friend who also had a similar problem and tried everything - he tried meditation, he tried yoga/exercising, he even tried isolation mediation, going to temple everyday etc. etc.

finally on our advice (he had ONLY 4 friends), he tried therapy and i am glad to say that he is now fine, though it took two years of professional help. Now, is an outgoing, gregarious person with a family....

so, its up to you.......

Answer 38

for physical ailments you can run tests, take x-ray?MRI etc etc and locate and treat the problem....
BUT
for the tricks that mind plays on us, we need specialised help as x-rays, MRI etc. r of no use...

Answer 39

similar problem??? I dont know if I am contradicting myself that if I do go to doctor and gradually I will stop looking at wrong places??? i mean its insane, crazy. like AIDS which has no cure to it.....how can anyone help you LOOK RIGHT?

Answer 40

u got to believe in yourself............you got to feelthat you will one day achieve your goal..........it's all belief.........it's all faith

Answer 41

i think shirinfores your path is better because someone said STOP PLAYING THE VICTIM

Answer 42

its yr though process which controls yr actions, if that is put right you will even look in the right direction..............

nobody has seen GOD but if you look at the right places you will find it.......

the way to becomme better is
realise/accept there is a problem
if u can fix it yourself, fix it
if not, seek help of a more wise/knowledgeable person

Answer 43

god does not exist and I know that for sure :)

Answer 44

absolutely.........you are not a victim.............you just think you are one

Answer 45

Thanx guys I am feeling better now

Answer 46

as you say AIDS has no cure,
BUT has the world given up and sat back...
NO!! Now we have developed medicines that can prolong the life of AIDS victim
If we keep working, we will find a cure to it....just like we have found cures for many other diseases....

Answer 47

@harkirat: where r u from?

Answer 48

GOD does exist.........

go and help somebody in dire straits, and look into their eyes when they feel happy because you took time out for him/her....... You will see God there.......

put a seed into soil and water it for a few days, till the plant breaks out from the soil....God is there.......

Answer 49

peter, I am from India.....

Answer 50

o really, I know little about India, taj mahal

Answer 51

what province r u from?

Answer 52

We have many things....
India is a land of diverse cultures, we have many dance forms, many types of music and dance, many types of foods etc. etc.

Answer 53

I am from the capital DELHI..
The friend I was talking about had even turned to drugs and that is when we(his ONLY four friends) took a stand and made him seek help....
he never thanked us verbally, BUT the way he greets us when we visit his house shows us we did the right thing....

Answer 54

willl be back ...it nice to learn about India...

Answer 55

i wish i was nearby to you,....
i would relly like to help so PLS TAKE MY SINCERE SUGGESTION and seek professional help......

Answer 56

I will.........