Question

i need advice someone pleaseeeee help me :'(
i need advice someone pleaseeeee help me :'(
@Mathematics

Answer 1

What exactly is it that concerns you? I can help :)

Answer 2

my mom is abusing me , she beat me yesterdaty and she threatened to kill me , idk if ishould call the police or wat , my dad is tring really hard to come get me but she wont let him , wat should ido im scared for my safety :'(

Answer 3

try to calm her down

Answer 4

Well, I can say from experience that it's not worth it. She has to stop beating you or it will destroy you

Answer 5

hmmmm, if this is ongoing you have to leave . abuse usually doesnt stop

Answer 6

she has anger , shes not gonna calm down shes just gonna keep hitting me , she choked me

Answer 7

it depends on how crazy she is

Answer 8

Have you tried telling a teacher or somebody close to you? Maybe a school counselor? anything?

Answer 9

no dont tell school counselor

Answer 10

she has OCD , HD , & anger problems

Answer 11

this is a family problem,

Answer 12

ADHD*

Answer 13

my school counselor helped me with it, to a point, but ur right.

Answer 14

you gotta reach out to your family, as in OTHER relatives

Answer 15

Only talk to people you can trust

Answer 16

do you have a grandpa with a gun? go there

Answer 17

or stay by a relative and tell her, if you come near me i will call police. that usually scares people

Answer 18

you have options though if you dont want to consult to family.

Answer 19

but dont call police

Answer 20

ihave a dad whos trying to come get me but she wnt let him

Answer 21

well, if you feel your life is threatened then run away

Answer 22

i mean i would hate for you to die,

Answer 23

people can die from choking, but usually they just pass out

Answer 24

but if she brings out a knife, then youre in trouble

Answer 25

You'll know who you can trust because they'll let you know what they can do to help you iand give their honest opinion on what you should do and let you decide ultimately what is best.

Answer 26

you can try fighting back, are you strong?

Answer 27

if iran away she'd find me

Answer 28

it doesnt sound good. dunno... find a relative to stay by and threaten to call the police. that usually does the trick

Answer 29

itryed fighting back yesterday but she put her knee in my neck & repeatedly punched me in my face

Answer 30

tell her you have it recorder her abusing her and you will go to a judge

Answer 31

Tell her you are going to call child services, and that usually calms things down.

Answer 32

recorded*

Answer 33

actually dont tell her anything, just get OUT of there

Answer 34

she said she was gonna call child services on me

Answer 35

that doesnt make sense, lol

Answer 36

ijust waanna be with m dad

Answer 37

why would she call child services on you, ?

Answer 38

Repeatedly punched in the face? Oh, you need to get away from her as fast as possible

Answer 39

so they can take me away

Answer 40

child services will take her away

Answer 41

she has it backwards

Answer 42

yea she punched me over 10 times

Answer 43

they will take her away and place you with a relative

Answer 44

are you making this up so you can be with your dad?

Answer 45

no iswear this is all real

Answer 46

let her call child services, you may regret not doing in the long run

Answer 47

Yes, that will happen, but the abuse isn't worth it.

Answer 48

actually, i dont know . they might place you in foster care . how old are you?

Answer 49

im 14

Answer 50

oh

Answer 51

what other relatives do you have?

Answer 52

awhh im 14 too . just talk to someone your close with or call the police.

Answer 53

your mom probably doesnt like your dad. so find a compromise. do you have grandparents?

Answer 54

tell her you guys need space, it happens

Answer 55

im only close with myse wants me :(

Answer 56

myse?

Answer 57

go to myse

Answer 58

my Dad*

Answer 59

with my dad

Answer 60

how can she stop your dad ? from taking you

Answer 61

she said she will call the police and say its kidnapping

Answer 62

if she has this much control that she can stop your dad, then you need to find another option. like a neutral relative

Answer 63

someone she doesnt mind

Answer 64

and tell her that this is beneficial for the both of us, so you can study and get good grades ;)

Answer 65

since stress = bad grades

Answer 66

igot that but ihave 3 options
run away
call police
or get beat by her :(

Answer 67

ok

Answer 68

scratch out the third option

Answer 69

so you are left with run away , or call police. i guess its up to you then

Answer 70

i dont know much about police, but my experience is that they are complete dumbasses

Answer 71

but i guess its better than getting beat up... if you have a grandparent you can run away to them

Answer 72

my grandparents are just like her but iguess ill haftah think this through thanks everyone for all the help , pray for me

Answer 73

your grandparents should understand the situation. i think

Answer 74

they dnt they take her side

Answer 75

i was in the same situation.... call the police

Answer 76

ok