does it always hurt the first time???

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anonymous · Answer

Girls usually say that sex hurts at least a little bit, the first time. 

But it should not hurt A LOT. 

Sometimes, sex hurts more than it should, when we don't have enough lubrication. 

You can buy lube at almost any convenience store, like CVS, or at the supermarket. 

If you use lube, with condoms, you can lessen the amount of pain you might feel from the penis rubbing against the vagina.

anonymous · Answer

is it proper to suck it or is it just a dirty slutty way???

anonymous · Answer

You're talking about blowjobs? 

That's not slutty at all, trust me, almost EVERYBODY around the world does it. 

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 

Unless you like to go around sucking off every guy, lol. 
That might be considered "slutty," in America. And the UK. And other parts of the world. 

The thing about sucking is that you gotta be careful. 
If a guy has some kind of infection from a virus, or bacteria, 
you can get the same thing, from sucking him off. 

Aside from obvious sores and blisters you might see on the penis, 
the only way to know FOR SURE if a guy has an STD (sexually transmitted disease) 
is if he goes to a doctor, and gets tested. 

How you choose to handle that is totally up to you. 

Other than that, sucking can be fun. And it won't get you pregnant. So that's a plus.