Question

Cyber Bullying. This is an issue all over and everyone needs to watch this video, cyber bullying, or just bullying period can lead to suicide I'm a victim so I understand and anyone who has been a victim please speak up your voice will be heard http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=-5PZ_Bh-M6o&feature=endscreen

Answer 1

I'd just ignore cyber bullies.
Fun will go away if you don't respond at all and eventually they'll leave you and go look for a new target.

Answer 2

but sometimes they dont leave... they keep picking til you crack for the fun of it just because you try and ignore it dosnt mean you can forever eventually it does take over and it's awful believe me I know

Answer 3

But any target is bad I don't ignore them I stand up to them I used to get bullied a lot so I had low self asteam but now I set myself as a leader and I don't make my self fit In I don't I don't understand why people or what people get out of bullying

Answer 4

they get the satisfaction of feeling that they are better than everyone else... thats why they do it because they dont like themselves and they bully to make other people feel bad so they can feel good about themselves for once.

Answer 5

People who bully usually have problems of their own and they want to take out their own frustrations on others.

Answer 6

Everybody who bullies has a problem of their own they try to cover up.

Answer 7

well maybe they should work on themselves instead of locking it up and hurting others... they would get alot further in life if they did

Answer 8

amen It's not fair for them to take their problems out on other people cause they didn't do it.

Answer 9

Exactly! I was pulled out of public school, lost all my friends except one and now i have trouble going out in public and social issues they dont know how much they effect someones life, they need to cut it out cause soon the bully's will be the bullied if they keep going like this,

Answer 10

Still i think ignoring is the best solution. What's the fun in bullying someone who doesn't seem to care at all? if they continue they must really hate you.
I would just find a way to get them back (hacking) but that would make me a bully xD

Answer 11

I was bullied because of my personal situation I trusted my "best friend" with it spread across the school and before I knew it I was a chick who got abused who wasn't worth the time of day at school :( It ripped me to shreads so to build my self confidence back up I was home schooled until high school

Answer 12

i hat went and killed himself with a 9 mm because he was bullied and picked on at school all the time

Answer 13

My mom wanted to send me to the middle school for my last year of middle and I refused scared if i go back it would happen all over again i'm talking like melt downs... it was really bad.. I'm sorry that happened to you Ryleigh </3 and @Thomaster haha nahh dont hack just do what i do if it's over the cmputer fight back or if it's person well... i just stand there and look at the floor thats how bad it is they walk all over me...

Answer 14

Eh well it wasn't the worst thing in my life and I stayed stong through something so much worse then being bullied and if I stayed strong through that I can stay strong through high school and the last year of middle I just hate seeing people get bullied or abused cause I know how bad it is :(

Answer 15

if someone were to walk all over me and pick on me i would start throwing punches and not stop untill i am pulled off of the JERK!!!

Answer 16

I was bullied in scholl multiple times and when I went to a new school I would make up stuff like my teacher was mean and stuff like that so my parents would take me out of that school and homeschool me :(. I did that multiple times. I'm still doing online school today(starting 6th grade after this summer). In my online school people accept me for who I am and there all realllllllllllllllllyyyyyyyy nice. So I'm happy where I stand now.

Answer 17

*school

Answer 18

in fact if i saw a younger kid being bullied i would stand up for him

Answer 19

I always stand up to them and never join the crowd I literally cant stress enough how emotional I get about bullying

Answer 20

Same here I wont stand up for myself but if it's someone I know or my family you better run cause that wont fly with me even when my older sister yells at my mom to shut up and stuff I start yelling cause thats my mom and yeah... I dont take that stuff but if it's towards me I shut down and go mute for almost hours just replaying it in my head... it's awful. I literally can't trust anyone in my town i turned to the computer and made friends on there cause they were so nice and accepted me for me hence another reason I have social issues I spend so much time in the house and on the computer.... it effected me alot it started in K and went all the way through 6th...

Answer 21

OMG you duplicated me there^^

Answer 22

Easier said than Done JA1...

Answer 23

I'd like to see that be successful you have a pair of twins on the end of your wrist for a reason as long as its in self defense you better use them.

Answer 24

I've only had to hit someone once and it was my sister.... lets just say I dont like getting bullied in my own home and I won that day (she's three years older and thought that just cause im younger it wasnt so pretty)

Answer 25

I've hit someone Once and it was FOR my at the time 2year old brother I ripped her weave out it was bad she wanted to not only "Down Talk" me but a defenseless done nothing wrong baby it TOTALLY pissed me off so I went country hood on her. You don't mess with my brother he might only be 4 right now but he's still my brother and I would not only take a bullet but I'd come back to live 5 times over to take a bullet for that boy.

Answer 26

I really want to start something for bullying and to stop it... I can't get anyone to work on it with me idc if it's on facebook,twitter,ect I just want to start something... hey Ryleigh would you do it with me? I wanna prove to anyone who has ever bullied me and other people,who said that we would get no where in life and stuff is proved wrong

Answer 27

OF COURSE! I'd do anything to defend the defenseless

Answer 28

cyberbullying isn't a joke, its just like real bullting except you cant escape ever all around the world people know and you feel trapped. My bestie killed herself over it, i almost did before but im better now, ssso trust me it is a big deal and to those who just stand by or does it you are just letting some one get hurt or possibly die if they cant help it

Answer 29

Cool message me and we can talk about it? anyone else can join if they want :)

Answer 30

OMG. Im so glad you okay now @callie2240 I'm sorry you or anybody has to go through all of this and a lot of us here know cause we've been there and still are recovering like I'm in counseling from not just bullying but close enough. it's bad. worse then people realize

Answer 31

Yes very, landed me in therapy and i'll be in here god knows how long... Im glad your okay @callie2240 :)

Answer 32

it landed me there for 2+ years :/

Answer 33

That stinks :/ yeah it's some pretty messed up stuff.. but, if we all stick together we can get through this :)

Answer 34

Im ok, i was in the mental instution for trying but i got better, and now i know better, but i still have my moments remembering but it happens to everyone, i realize that @Batmanmusicfreak101 and @Ryleighblue thank you

Answer 35

your completly right @Batmanmusicfreak101

Answer 36

The saddest part is the spand of victims is larger then the spand of bullys so if we do stick together we can over come the bullys

Answer 37

true that

Answer 38

that is completely true! Well not in my town... there are groups of bullies and they usually stick with like one or two people... unless you got bullied like me everyone in school bullied me sometimes even the teachers would say stuff

Answer 39

Okay Callie you tag anyone you can on or off line that's A-F
Batman Tag H-N
I got the rest

Answer 40

i know how that is my whole family did it to me, the whole school and even my friends, even when i was in the insitution, but i rather be there cause others were more nicer and understanding

Answer 41

I'm so sorry to hear your troubles with these individuals! Just know that it is more a reflection of the bullies character that comes out, especially if they have their own emotional problems. It is not a reflection of your character and do not become disempowered by it. There will always be bullies but how you deal with them is a critical choice, especially if you feel helpless or unsupported.

If the bully uses strictly psychological tactics you need not worry about staying your ground and being confident in your shoes. If the bully seems aggressive or even hostile, being brave may not be the best answer. Seek guidance from a counsellor or adult. I hope that helps and by no means are these the only ways of dealing with bullies effectively. Spread the Peace and Love, but don't give out indiscriminately :)

Answer 42

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Answer 43

I was jumped and beatin almost everyday beforeand after school

Answer 44

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Answer 45

Tagging people for what? I only follow Five people on here just got the account a few days ago

Answer 46

Just random people just type the letter and let their name pop up and click it. And do it so we can get as many people as possible to stand against with us. and to let the people who might get bullied on here know theres someone here for them

Answer 47

@Neuronerd no one ever helped me they just thought it was no biggy

Answer 48

@uri @marcoduuuh @mangorox

Answer 49

@Neuronerd the teachers watched and didn't care... they actually laughed no one really cares until it happens to them

Answer 50

Every buddy said i should die and im worthless when they did it, i took a few on but when 20 year old dudes and chicks join its kind of hard...

Answer 51

This is very sad and moving if anyone is being bullied just know that your never alone God sticks closer then a friend will never think your any less because of what someone said about you not everyone in this world is going to like you so keep your head up high and know what God thinks of you. I will never be the same follower of Christ.
"Unashamed"

Answer 52

People are digging in the trash for a rotten apple core, and you're telling me a rich girl killed herself because someone called her a name online?

Good. Nothing of value was lost.

Answer 53

That sounds like a very unsupportive community. It is beyond me to give suggestions since I do not know you directly, but I would ask if you feel like a victim, independent of the bullying. If your answer is yes, then you have to address that need within yourself to be understood and to be affirmed within your individuality (yeah that does sound like some psycho-babble). Just do what you like, flip the bird at nay-sayers, and live your life as happy as possible. I know it gets more complicated then this, but at least it is a starting point.

Answer 54

@Compassionate now that wasn't very compassionate. A life is a life. I even feel bad when I swat a mosquito... but that doesn't stop me from doing it, that dirty bloodsucker!

Answer 55

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Answer 56

All I saw was thet opic and started commenting.
I have been a victim of cyber and physical bullying. At home and school.

Answer 57

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Answer 58

@Neuronerd yeah it isn't so great here... all the kids here care about is sports,drinking and yeah... just the bird and standing up isnt enough take it to far you get jumped,shot at,ect. and @Compassionate yeah we don't like what your saying... have nothing to say dont say anything at all

Answer 59

@Batmanmusicfreak101 true, its very easy to not care and be emotionally absent to these horrible events. But I think that is more a product of the type of society we live in and its standards of normality and its expectations... Throw those out the window and be free (of course, easier said then done)

Answer 60

@Compassionate come on dude, if you think that you probably bullied yourself and hurt someone for it, have some respect, its people who say that stuff that starts it. people cant change the way they feel but you know what that was screw up to even say

Answer 61

I've been jumped by 5 people. I've been in physical conflicts and have done my time.

I mean, how does that even work? In real life you get beaten up and kicked, stomped and spit on. Over the internet, just like, block the person or walk away.



First World Problems.

Answer 62

Hello.....why was I tagged?

Answer 63

EVERYBODY TAGGED, you were tagged to help us stand together in the fight against bully IF you have any Ideas or anything you wanna share please do it here or pm me @callie2240 or @Batmanmusicfreak101 we are gonna do our best to start something against bullying and remember anything Big starts with something small

Answer 64

@Compassionate we have all been bullied in real life to... not just over the internet okay? So dont go starting stuff

Answer 65

Oh I get it now. Bullies!
@Compassionate people have different pain thresholds. Understand that.

Answer 66

@Compassionate you should know it doesn't feel good at all and you have no idea what others go through so don't judge till you know, people must have it worst than you so you know what, you may have it bad but you have no idea....rape even happens for torcher you have no idea

Answer 67

@Compassionate thats some experience you got there, but it doesn't debase the importance of problems even if you call them 'first world'. I think what are you are mentioning is for people to buck up and get some grit on their shoulders, which definitely the right thing to do, but it is beyond you to criticize other people's problems. Be a bit more compassionate.

Answer 68

Not like I'm starting a beef, but some people are sensitive to some topics.
If you hit them at that spot, you can break them. So yeah, Cyber Bullying can be as bad as the real thing......

Answer 69

The making of the video isn't me. I just found it and it made me want to start a controversy about bullying

Answer 70

and btw they even clame your a whore after word when you fight so everyone hates you and dont know the truth and post it on the internet and do it in real life and more people hurt you the same way so @Compassionate thats all i have to say

Answer 71

Actually, you're all wrong. Cyberbullying was created by rich kids who don't know how harsh reality really is. Only teenage kids get cyberbullied because of their pretentious teen-complexes. Any mature adult could see how infantile they're acting.

The truth hurts. The world is a lonely place and no one gets anything for free. And you know what? Everyone you know and love is going to die.

Nobody can make you suffer. ALL they can do is impinge upon your six senses. They can make you see certain things, they can make you feel certain things. They can make you hear, smell, taste, and possibly think certain things. But they can't make you react to those certain things in a certain way.

Answer 72

I have been both cyber bullied and bullied in person a number of times, people have told me to "kill myself" and that "no one liked me" and all sorts of horrible things. Of course I disabled these accounts I was being bullied on to resolve the problem. My friends were there to support me and tell me positive things about myself. I am very thankful that I have a solid group of friends who really care about me and were able to help me through it. I think its pathetic how people sit behind a computer screen and write mean things to people. it really needs to stop. thank you for sharing this video with everyone! awareness needs to be raised more on this problem (:

Answer 73

Honestly, you shouldn't let it get to you. It's really not that hard to go on with life. So what if people don't like you. It doesn't matter. There are people that do. Lol. I honestly hate it when people are like "omgz i wuz buly'd once and i wunna kil miself :(((9999". It's so annoyinh. SO. ANNOYING.

Answer 74

People don't have to be rude she just wanted to share a video with us she is not taking a side

Answer 75

Getting cyberbullied is a choice. Good game, guys.

Answer 76

annoying*

Answer 77

Cyber bullying happens for many of the same reasons as any other type of bullying, but it may be even more appealing because it can be done anonymously.

Popular kids or teens may bully because:
-They see it as a way to stay popular.
-Hurting others makes them feel powerful.
-It helps them cope with their own low self-esteem.
-They think it will help them fit in with their peers.
-They have trouble empathizing with those they hurt.

This is always going to happen. The question here is what are YOU going to do to prevent this from happening? Yes everyone gets bullied in life, if not cyber bullied, then in many other ways (verbally, physically, etc.) How are we as a group going to help stop this? You said that you wanted us to form something, well in that case... Does anybody have ideas?

Answer 78

@Compassionate ......"rich kids" and "kids with problems" don't mean the same thing.
If you ever had problems you'll understand....
And change your name from Compassionate

Answer 79

can you please walk away Mrs.Uncompassionate? we are here to defend victims not be one

Answer 80

I did not watch the video.
I don't care for it. My point is that people should not dismiss Cyber Bullying.

Answer 81

Like, people used to be douchebags to me all the time and making fun of me, and quite frankly, I couldn't care less about any of it. It's really not hard to ignore it, even if they continue to do it. Let them. As @Compassionate said, it's a choice.

Answer 82

Okay is @Compassionate bothering anyone else or just me? I hate to be this person but I really disagree with her....

Answer 83

Listen guys.
@Compassionate is not wrong.
Nobody is wrong.
It's all perspective.

Answer 84

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