What role do you think discipline plays in developing a child’s self-esteem? What forms of discipline best serve the self-esteem of the child or adolescent?

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What role do you think discipline plays in developing a child’s self-esteem?  What forms of discipline best serve the self-esteem of the child or adolescent?

anonymous · Answer

I think discipline plays a huge role in developing a child's self-esteem - not forgetting, of course, that discpline means to teach and guide, as opposed to punishment. Punishment can totally compromise and demolish a child's self esteem. Discipline, when done correctly, can increase a child's self-esteem. one of the major tasks of parenthood is disciplining children. Discipline does not mean harsh rules or spanking; it means creating guidelines. Children develop feelings of self-esteem, competence, independence, cooperation and responsibility when they grow up with guidelines. Two effective ways to discipline children and create sensible guidelines are through rewards and punishment. You can learn more on that topic with : its very helpful http://aces.nmsu.edu/pubs/family_times/family_times_4_ENG.pdf