Question

Can someone help me with this girl?

Answer 1

Is it math related?

Answer 2

Nope but i guess its chemistry...hahah. Its just she is oblivious to her own subconscious feelings and wont consciously process it...or i am just too dumb too read her.

Answer 3

Even if it's not the second option, which it most likely is, how could you ever possibly force someone to consciously process their own subconscious feelings? Try to force yourself to process your own subconscious feelings right now! At least you have the ability to be in your own mind to play your thoughts out and push you towards things.

She's really on her own and if you've made a move and explicitly said, "Hey gurl, I like you and I think we'd be great etc etc..." and she's denied you then there's really nothing else you can do and the more you try to force her to change her mind the more she'll just think you're creepy and you'll only exhaust her like a kid asking their parents, "Are we there yet?" The answer is no!

Accept it and leave her be. She may think about it for a while and come around. But she definitely won't if you're bugging her. Go off and have fun doing cool stuff. Make her jealous to have not said yes or whatever. If she doesn't come around, that's fine too as you might end up finding some other girl who's totally much cooler and doesn't have this disability you describe of not being able to face her own subconscious thoughts or whatever.

Yeah, the point is there are many fish in the sea and although you probably don't think that, it's really unattractive to behave as though that's not the case because you'll only look like a clingy person and get on her nerves... I'm just trying to help you out while also being honest too. Good luck with your chemistry project dude.

Answer 4

Did you ask her if she likes you?

Answer 5

Did you tell her that you like her?

Answer 6

nope but i gave her ,Really big hints like she asked me "yeah my friends think we should have gone out" then im like "Well why didnt that happen" and she just laughed and sipped her tea in a nervous way so it could be bad or good also sorry about that i read only the first paragraph.....

Answer 7

But i know i am in there somewhere or i could be...you know.

Answer 8

if its a lost cause i might quit and leave her for the 4yrs we known each other, really well or be good friends in college......but leaving sounds easier

Answer 9

Well are you going to regret it? You have to go out of your comfort zone and just say, "HEY! I like you a lot and we should be bf/gf together because I like you!" Or something like that. Sounds like you really like this girl and you'll only be disappointed. At least if you say something and she says, "No!" then you'll know. Then you can move on and stop wondering.

If you don't do anything you're just going to keep getting older when you could really be having a lot of fun with this girl that really likes you. Don't let your fear control you, just go for it. Otherwise you're just doomed to be in the "comfortable" mode of never acting and always wondering. But you should just take a deep breath and go for it, what's the worst that could happen?

Suppose she says no. Then ask if it's ok that you can still be friends? Even so, it sounds like you can always escape for 4 years and be friends later in life. Good luck.

Answer 10

Thanks yeah i feel thats the best options thanks man your a knowledgeable person! THANK YOU SO MUCH :) MUSASHI

Answer 11

Haha have fun, I hope it works out for you! =)