Question

i hate how people are looking for love on a study site-_-

Answer 1

You can report such users. Flirting is not allowed here. We will take appropriate action against them :)

Answer 2

hmmm seems like someone is getting allot of guys in their inbox but i know i message u i hope ur not talking about me im sorry if i am :'(

Answer 3

awwww no i'm not talking about you..lol you don't flirt with me:)
but i've blocked a'lot of people because they try and hit on me or say creepy things

Answer 4

O_O u know ur my sis just let me know and ill make sure they'll leave u alone

Answer 5

is this him? ^

Answer 6

We take harsher action if someone is being inappropriate or creepy, like suspending them right away. We don't want girls of OS to have any inconvenience here. Just report them.

Answer 7

@caleb_gajewsky look that is not how you talk to a lady okay!. this is a study site not e-harmony ok? do you understand what im saying?

Answer 8

That was alittle creepy xD

Answer 9

yes sir

Answer 10

I don't see why people can't get it through their skulls that this site is for studying >_> Some people are just pathetic

Answer 11

thank you! i dont want guys all over my inbox saying the stuff they do-_- its gross i came on this site to get help with my questions,and to answer other peoples questions

Answer 12

I'm sorry you have to deal with people like that :/ Hopefully this will make your day a little better

Answer 13

chill I was clearly playing with you dang xD

Answer 14

ohh yeah bc it clearly came out as a joke.

Answer 15

Lol you tell him!

Answer 16

lol:)

Answer 17

@caleb_gajewsky Your the reason girls leave this site.. you with your creepy reply's :P

Answer 18

lol yeah

Answer 19

Lol I hope you know im kidding :P If it sounded mean then i'm sorry

Answer 20

hhmm not funny ^ -.- this is serious sir cause i have noticed allot of people are asking others to strip

Answer 21

nah that was funny dumbsearch good stuff

Answer 22

wait......are you being serious? you can go to your settings and do that?

Answer 23

no @Nsanders he's being sarcastic he's changing the words

Answer 24

i know that casue i know that trick to change the words

Answer 25

ohhhh okay im confused

Answer 26

Sorry for the confusion, @Nsanders. There is no such setting :)

Answer 27

@dumbsearch2 that was a very dirty trick :P

Answer 28

lol but that was funny

Answer 29

Yes it was xD

Answer 30

i can be such a blonde some times:)

Answer 31

no

Answer 32

You just got confused by the Eggheaded Professor, thats all :)

Answer 33

Lol

Answer 34

:)

Answer 35

Yes, flirting is not allowed, unless you're Compassionate and meet your fiancee and have a kid. Other than that. ;)

@hartnn

Answer 36

caleb_gajewsky "chill I was clearly playing with you dang xD"

Well, we suspend and ban people for playing with others that way. We are also working on new and improved systems to do do bans more effectively and sooner than before. So if you think what you are doing is "cute," just realize you do so at risk of no longer being able to use the site.

Answer 37

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FAyDmJvjxbg

Answer 38

@Kainui Yah, that song came to mind for me too... the whole "Lookin' For Love In All The Wrong Places" line. That actually came from a school teacher and was a comment on her second grade students. She also happened to write country songs and it got picked for a movie. Still, the second grader part applies for how some of these people act here.

Answer 39

"That actually came from a school teacher and was a comment on her second grade students."

Is she speaking about her second grade students dating, or is this school teacher eyeballing second grade students? Because either of them are in the wrong places.

Answer 40

It was student to student stupidity.

Answer 41

Good. Because one was wrong, and one was really wrong.

Answer 42

LOL
http://news.google.com/newspapers?nid=1979&dat=19870217&id=1oQiAAAAIBAJ&sjid=6akFAAAAIBAJ&pg=3474,7152594

Answer 43

Go to bed Eric.

Answer 44

NOTE: If you are Bad, I am your Dad ;) :p

Answer 45

you're not helping

Answer 46

So gofor is the parent that teaches people to be bad?

Answer 47

OMG!!! I had the same exact problem...This was from all different guys:
1.) Guys gave me their numbers and told me to text them...
2.) Give me your number
3.) Do you like feet??
4.) Your "cute"
And so on..I think you guys get it..It's really wierd...

Answer 48

@YanaSidlinskiy Yep. So report, report, report. When we catch those, we warn, send a message, or suspend. It all depends on what is reported, how often it happens with that user, and how long they have been on OS. Longer you are here, more we expect you to know the rules, so a 70+ SS starts hitting on people, they might find themselves suspended pretty quick. And there is one mod that is HIGHLY offended by these people, so they tend to suspend pretty long pretty soon.

Answer 49

Alrighty!:D Thanx @e.mccormick

Answer 50

"Do you like feet?" How is this flirting or creepy?

"Your cute" They are complimenting you, I thought girls loved those.

Answer 51

>Do you like feet

This is not only flirting, it implies something very sexual.

Answer 52

The foot question implies the foot fetish, which is a very plebeian fetish.

The cute thing is wrong in a number ways. First, it is used as an intro line. Second, how can you really know what anyone on here looks like, so how can you say they are cute? Third, there are a wide range of cultural implications of implying someone is cute, so the level is reaction is going to depends on the recipient and how they hear it, not how it is intended.

Since this is an educational site with no intention of allowing dating information to be transferred any sort of dating intro is done at risk by the user. What makes it worse is that there have been a few bad incidents where people used OS to trade information and it turned out badly. Some nasty calls, some nasty TinyChats, etc. We try to squash these things ASAP to simply keep the site on topic and limit incidents.

Answer 53

I like feet, but meters are fine as well.

Answer 54

Ew. Metric.