Which of the following statements is a blaming message?
A.
"I think we made a mistake."
B.
"You've messed up everything!"
C.
"We can't mess this up."
D.
"I apologize for the error."

Question

Which of the following statements is a blaming message?
A.
"I think we made a mistake."
B.
"You've messed up everything!"
C.
"We can't mess this up."
D.
"I apologize for the error."

anonymous · Answer

Which of the following should a woman in an abusive relationship NOT do to help her husband change his abusive ways?
A.
She should stay and be patient with her husband, hoping he will come to his senses.
B.
She should leave the situation to ensure her own safety, regardless of how much he begs her to stay and says he will change.
C.
She should help him get regular counseling while keeping a distance from him.
D.
She should accept that it's not her fault and report violent acts to the police.

anonymous · Answer

In the first one, "you" are the one should be blamed for, not "I", not "we". That's is a blaming message.

Second one, be confident, give your own opinion. What would you do if you were "her"?