My daughter has a boyfriend that i dont like. She has been with him for two years with out my blessing. She has sneeked out to see him so i then said that she could not see him any longer but that made her sneek out even more. She says that she loves him and he says he loves her. I have put a restraining order on him but they still continue to see each other! She is 15 and he is 17 what do I do in this situation?

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My daughter has a boyfriend that i dont like. She has been with him for two years with out my blessing. She has sneeked out to see him so i then said that she could not see him any longer but that made her sneek out even more. She says that she loves him and he says  he loves her. I have put a restraining order on him but they still continue to see each other! She is 15 and he is 17 what do I do in this situation?

mojelead · Answer

Well, I say that you agree to allow them date, BUT you have to be present when they're together. And eventually, back off less and less if you find that you can trust them to be alone together. And if not, just stay on top of them even more.