Question

Hey guys quick question. How can you tell if a guy is really being sincere or if he just wants one thing and is lying to you? Asking for a friend!

Answer 1

i would tell u but its confidential

Answer 2

no please you have to, i need to know! @gabethebabe

Answer 3

i was joking lmao theres no magical way to tell if someone is being sincere thats why you build trust with people before you tell them your secrets

Answer 4

use common sense and good judgement those are almost as helpful as some collegiate degrees these days

Answer 5

okay, so lets say there is a guy who I have known for about four to five years now and he used to be a total Peanut Butter who lied all the time but i was in love with him. I finally realized that I didn't need that in my life and we separated paths but recently he came back into my life saying all these nice things and i want to believe him but how do I know if I can

Answer 6

peanut butter was supposed to be a cuss word

Answer 7

well you dont know. so to find out if hes worth your time and your trust then you have to test his integrity

Answer 8

just trust him he sounds like good guy

Answer 9

^lmao thats what id say if i was tryna get lai d

Answer 10

*sips tea*

Answer 11

he promised to come see me and never showed. now he is making these promises all over again and I want to trust him im just not sure

Answer 12

but yeah id confront him and say why didnt you follow thru with your promises? are you going to? can i trust you? then ask him to prove it, guys want something to chase after

Answer 13

he said some bull crap about following my heart when i asked him if i could trust him

Answer 14

well u just called bs so if u think hes being fake then dont date him

Answer 15

i mean what do you want me to say lmao

Answer 16

if you dont care let the man get the pus sc too i mean im not tryna coc kblock my man over there

Answer 17

lmao but yeah just make the decision that reflects what you have learned and believe about him

Answer 18

i just dont wanna be hurrt

Answer 19

but thx for advice

Answer 20

then dont date him

Answer 21

*still sipping tea*

Answer 22

its a risk and reward situation. decide which you would prefer: taking the chance or playing it safe. whichever you decide realize the costs and benefits and make an educated decision

Answer 23

i cant give any advice im a hoe im addicted to men i cant even lie but ya listen to Gabe lol

Answer 24

im geeked that deserves a medal lmao

Answer 25

lol

Answer 26

@gabethebabe said a lot of good things. It comes down to using your intuition as to if he is lying or not.

Answer 27

@gabethebabe @Shadow thx guys we are on facetime talking it out now

Answer 28

Yeah, just remember what Gabe said about risk vs reward. Is this guy really worth it? That's a question you need to ask yourself, as relationships are a lot of work - time, money, and heart. Getting hurt in the end...again, isn't something worth going through. You have to see if that risk is worth it.

Answer 29

@Shadow thats the best thing ive heard in a long time