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(A new thing i'm gonna try out) DAILY ANNOUNCEMENT!: Shyness....It's um...something to look out for really...
Shy people try to hard to make Friends when they feel alone. and sometimes we don't want friends at all, When I first started talking to people online. I kinda lurked for a bit and tried to see if everyone knew each other, and they did. I tried fitting in by doing things no person should ever do... like cuss, do dirty things, make jokes that werent funny but rude. Thankfully.. my father blocked those sites... if he hadn't I wouldn't be here right now. I also might be dead.

If you happen to be shy or are trying to fit in do NOT do the things listed as follows.. unless you're a savage and don't care what I say that's FINE xD: Curse, bully, cyberbully, do dirty things, look up things you shouldn't, and etc.

I just wanted to say that and get this out. If you see a new person acting to much the way they shouldn't go over to them and tell them to find a new group of friends to hang out with. And if they don't just tell them to be their selves :P

Answer 1

yes please listen to razor

Answer 2

I have gone through the same thing as him

Answer 3

^^^^

Answer 4

You make me proud Razor :3

Answer 5

Understandable. It's not just virtually but it also occurs in school as well I should know I was the same for a time. I think it was in middle school, I was just trying to fit in and well I started to hang out with the wrong people and my behavior changed horribly. I promised to never act like that again, but its nice seeing that you made that change as well. Just fight through the loneliness, it gets better >.<

Answer 6

^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Awesome, I can still barely talk to my family members without stuttering though >..<

Answer 7

yeah when I was in school I was very lonely, and most times when I ment new people

Answer 8

I would have a problem to stutter

Answer 9

plus with the religion I am everyone would usually look at me weird and never talk to me, so I started doing so many wrong things that people told me to do just to hang out with them

Answer 10

ye, we tend to do things just to fit in. I mean it got so bad I was called out by the principal one time (bad bad past) but we learn from our past. We now know to just be ourselves, if they dun like us for US then they dun deserve us, we just need to find ppl that like well us cx

Answer 11

btw great post razor cx

Answer 12

my suggestion, dont do things you dont like, or people do that you want to do to fit in, be you! thats all you need to have friends

Answer 13

agreed cx

Answer 14

trust me

Answer 15

Oof Thanks...also forgot to add : If it doesn't work out and you get depression like I did... get therapy.. My therapy is uh..family...and friends...that I can trust..

Answer 16

QC!

Answer 17

QC IS THE BEST THERAPY AS WELL!

Answer 18

xd

Answer 19

cx

Answer 20

aweome LOL

Answer 21

claps* nice job razor

Answer 22

U made me proud little cuz!

Answer 23

awwwwwwww Thanks

Answer 24

I just want to say that when you first go into a college dorm. It gets REAL.

Shy people are easily bullied and peer-pressured into drinking and promiscuity and cussing and setting you up to date people as well as uncomfortable touching and hazing sometimes.

It's the most peer-pressured environment I've ever felt and it's the same for males and females (I had a female friend that got creeped out so much by all the college guys hugging her for no reason when she moved into her dorm. But she didn't want to be rude so she let it happen)

Answer 25

@mhchen Oof..wow

Answer 26

wELP

Answer 27

Well, on here I can be true to myself, about myself. Out in the real world it’s hard cus it’s reality. Most wont accept the true you out there, but in here, ALMOST everyone here accepts you. Out of the 40 friends I have here all except 1 accepts the true me.
Just have fun and be true to yourself and everyone around you.