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Question 3(Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)
(03.03 LC)

Read this example and answer the following question:

Arnie and Danny became friends because they were on the hockey team together. Arnie is one year older than Danny, so he's bigger and likes to mess around with Danny by fake fighting. Danny likes Arnie, but he doesn't really like when Arnie pushes him around. He hasn't said anything because he doesn't want Arnie to think he is a wimp.

Last week, Arnie was shoving him around in the locker room and smashed Danny's foot. Arnie never said he was sorry, even though Danny is limping around with a huge bruise.

What's wrong with Danny and Arnie's friendship right now?

Danny and Arnie are both being Black Holes.
Danny is acting like a Strong Giver.
Arnie is acting like a Black Hole.
Arnie is acting like a Doormat.
Question 4(Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)
(03.04 LC)

Read this example and answer the following question:

Patrick invited everyone on his baseball team to come to his house for a pizza party—everyone except for J.D. Patrick isn't really friends with J.D.; he acts weird and isn't a very good player.

On Monday after the party, J.D. comes up to Patrick and says, "I heard you had a party for the team this weekend. Was there any reason why I wasn't invited?"

Patrick shrugged, "It wasn't personal, man. I just don't know you that well."

J.D. replied, "That's true. I'd like to get to know you better. If you have another party for the team, could you invite me? That way I can get to know the whole team better."

Patrick was relieved that J.D. wasn't mad at him. "Sure, man; next time, you're in!"

J.D. and Patrick just had an Open Conversation. What techniques did J.D. use?

Start by confrontation, insult the other person, end with ignoring
Start by complaining, criticize everyone, quit the team
Start by listening, assume he doesn't know, share his thoughts
Start by listening, ask questions, force everyone to apologize to him