Question

Im having relationship probs and i need some advice

Answer 1

Aight now I'll try to help you

Answer 2

Lmao aight

Answer 3

You wanna spill it out all here or in dms

Answer 4

It don't matter to me, which is easier for you?

Answer 5

Here lol

Answer 6

Lol aight

Answer 7

Welllllllll

Answer 8

Hm

Answer 9

Does he know that you know that he cheated

Answer 10

No.

Answer 11

Do you have proof that he cheated on you?

Answer 12

Yeah

Answer 13

Do you guys live by each other or is this online dating

Answer 14

We live with each other

Answer 15

Please do not bypass the filter
And it depends on a few things
But first you want to confirm it and confront them on it
You can tell if someone did it for fun or just made a horrible mistake
How long have you been together for and how do you know they cheated?

Answer 16

with each other.. oh dang

Do you have anywhere to move if you break up with him or like is it your house or whut

Answer 17

Ye what she said

Answer 18

I can go live wit my dad

Answer 19

Yea then just confront him and show him the proof that he actually did it

Answer 20

We've been together for 3 yrs and he left his phone when he went to work and someone called so i answered it

Answer 21

And like Angel said, you can tell if he did a horrible mistake or he did it for fun

Answer 22

Honestly idk

Answer 23

Well
Depending on what was said in the call you can't really tell if they actually cheated?

Answer 24

Welllll thats when messages come in

Answer 25

Don't make the mistake that my friend did. He thought that his girl was cheating and she ended up being clean of it. He had broken up with her and now we are trying to fix it. Make sure you have valid proof before you break up

Answer 26

I do. I'm showing him all the messages i read when he gets home.

Answer 27

Care to say wjat the messages said? If it is NSFW please give a cleaner version via dms

Answer 28

Mostly saying,
"can i come over"
"can we have "fun""
"I love you babe"
stuff like that
(i cant say no more cuz there are some kiddos on here)

Answer 29

so he's at work right now and you have his phone?

Answer 30

Yeah

Answer 31

you should photo the msgs on your phone, just in case

Answer 32

I've already screenshotted it and sent it to my phone

Answer 33

alright you a smart girl

Answer 34

Whether he cheated or not, you don't trust him.

Be honest with him.
His response will lead to your next choice.

To leave or not. o:

Answer 35

^

Answer 36

Ehhhh i've already made that choice

Answer 37

Talk to them about it
It could also be a joke
I say stuff like that to my friends
I dont know full context so I could be wrong
Just saying its possible, but you should for sure confront them

Answer 38

Alright.
But from the stuff i read im for sure leaving

Answer 39

when a person cheats, it shows that you two were never meant for each other, you guys can't be upfront and that's about the end of it.

Answer 40

Ur a straight up person

Answer 41

Hm

Answer 42

My girlfriend and I have a rule.. we have to be upfront with each other no matter what. She has been cheated on before and I have no intention of ever cheating on her.

Answer 43

Good, good

Answer 44

Goodluck with this

Answer 45

Sorry about it

Answer 46

Nah dont be