Question

why do i end it and jump ship when i catch actual feelings in a relationship?

Answer 1

who is this for

Answer 2

just a question in general about something that happens every frigging time

Answer 3

I think I might have an answer to this, but if I may. Are you in highschool? If not I was going to comment on how relationships prior to highschool wont really matter as much and won't go as well since most people are only starting to figure themselves out

Answer 4

yea im in highschool

Answer 5

Some people are scared of commitment, such as scared of what may happen. Others are scared due to insecurities. That they may not be good enough or etc. I'm sure there are other reasons for it but I can't think of them at the moment. You just might not be ready, Im not sure if one of the two things I mentioned apply to you or not but if they do you may work on them until it isn't an issue. Also side note, I know I said middle schoolers might still be figuring themselves out, you could still be as well and there is nothing wrong about that. You have time to work on things say that you may one day have a relationship so don't worry c: <3

Answer 6

some people just dont know what to do in many situations and they are just confused so they leave not wanting to hurt the one they love

Answer 7

this is not about my leukemia and not wanting to hurt u this is general we already know i dropped u so u wouldnt have to basically watch me deteriorate

Answer 8

im not saying it is i was saying why i usually do
and by the way i dont care about leukemia or nothing

Answer 9

Might I step into this

Answer 10

sure

Answer 11

@angelina157 Are you ok with me stepping into this as well?

Answer 12

yeps

Answer 13

why do u keep replying angelina157

Answer 14

So when someone has leukemia or any other medical issue they may also be afraid of whoever they are with seeing them go through negative changes. I've had a time period in which I was sick and I didn't want anyone to see me. I didn't want them to be sad for me, but I also didn't want to be seen. Hep I know it might not make sense to you but you saying you aren't affected (dating wise?) by her having it might not do as much as you think. Also if you guys need to talk to each other, for your privacy please do it in dms. I hope things work out

Answer 15

@AngeI i appreciate ur help i wasnt pushing ppl away bc of me being sick i pushed him away for other reasons as i said but i knew he was going to try to bring it up even tho it has absolutely nothing to do with it

Answer 16

I figured that due to your question, I mostly said that to hep

Answer 17

yh i appreciate ur help

Answer 18

oh thanks angel