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KeigoTakami:

So, I had a person tell me they were going to die that day, then they blocked me on everything. This was about a month ago, but its still negatively affecting me in many ways. Do you guys have any advice? =w=

Raaraaismyname:

Do you think that they are gone?

KeigoTakami:

No, their on Questioncove, and I messaged a friend and they were on an hour ago.

KeigoTakami:

It just hurts to know they didn't just say they didn't wanna talk anymore

Raaraaismyname:

Oh...I think that saying they might die, and still living would be just an excuse to cut you off. Yeah.

KeigoTakami:

I assumed that much heh

Raaraaismyname:

Do you want to look at it from a bright side?

KeigoTakami:

Looking at it from the bright side is usually just sugar coating it, and I don't think thats.. Very.. Good..?

Raaraaismyname:

Hmm. Not really, It's called reframing. You can change the way you think of it, but not lie to yourself about the situation, maybe being a little optimistic.

KeigoTakami:

Ah I see. So I guess so. 😅

IamAku:

I haven't seen you in 2 months >.>

KeigoTakami:

I know I know I died im sorry =w=

IamAku:

Welcome back :')

KeigoTakami:

Pear

KeigoTakami:

Lamo

Raaraaismyname:

If you don't mind me asking, in what negative ways has it effected you?

Raaraaismyname:

\(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{Originally Posted by}}\) @ellapayne wait, so the person you were talking to faked their death? \(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{End of Quote}}\) I believe so...

KeigoTakami:

I've been really depressed and I cant.. Socialize very well anymore.

Raaraaismyname:

\(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{Originally Posted by}}\) @KeigoTakami I've been really depressed and I cant.. Socialize very well anymore. \(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{End of Quote}}\) Do you believe that they are the cause of that or...something else?

ellapayne:

okay alright, all i really have to say is move on, nothing is worse than someone faking their death just to make you feel bad. from what i'm hearing. so just have hope that you can eventually take it behind you and walk away from the situation you were in. the world is a crazy place, take it in

KeigoTakami:

\(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{Originally Posted by}}\) @Raaraaismyname \(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{Originally Posted by}}\) @KeigoTakami I've been really depressed and I cant.. Socialize very well anymore. \(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{End of Quote}}\) Do you believe that they are the cause of that or...something else? \(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{End of Quote}}\) I cant say its their fault. The situation just made everything worse, accumulated more drama.

ellapayne:

and i can see why, but things happen and you cant fully control it for what path its going down

KeigoTakami:

\(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{Originally Posted by}}\) @ellapayne okay alright, all i really have to say is move on, nothing is worse than someone faking their death just to make you feel bad. from what i'm hearing. so just have hope that you can eventually take it behind you and walk away from the situation you were in. the world is a crazy place, take it in \(\color{#0cbb34}{\text{End of Quote}}\) Your right. I'm just.. VERY negative at times, and right now is one of thoes times.

Raaraaismyname:

You know..I was like that too, and I can't lie, I still am. But you know what I did?

KeigoTakami:

What did you do..?

Raaraaismyname:

I chose who I talked to carefully, I used to be so damn attached. I even closed my account five different times and came back over and over again. But then, I taught myself to keep it short and simple. A hello and a goodbye because we all come and go.

KeigoTakami:

Your right. Thank you for that.

Raaraaismyname:

Eh, you might forget this someday, you might not, but its worth a try. It may be hard to cut stuff off and focus on you but it's really worth it. It will take time but its nice at the end.

ellapayne:

if you look on my profile and read the bio part, it might help a bit. just to show that we can do anything for anything we go through (':

KeigoTakami:

IM ALIVE

ellapayne:

OH HI

KeigoTakami:

SORRY I DECIDED TO TURN ON ROCK MUSIC

Raaraaismyname:

AHAHA YES- FEEL ALIVEEE

ellapayne:

LOL

KeigoTakami:

HEHE

Raaraaismyname:

Okey, chu seem cool beans.

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