Question

I've been stuck on a friend of mine for the past 5 years, She's not around anymore but is it healthy to keep a person who isn't in your life anymore in your thoughts for such a long time?

Answer 1

no

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I- like do i need to go to therapy?

Answer 4

no-

Answer 5

just try not thinking abt her-

Answer 6

its happend to me before

Answer 7

in a week or 2 the thought will be gone

Answer 8

Well i mean you would think i've tried it but they just keep popping up after all this time

Answer 9

And it really throws my focus off balance

Answer 10

oh-

Answer 11

Idk if im just trying to hold onto good memories or something but yeah

Answer 12

mm

Answer 13

@sangWoAh

Answer 14

love is so strong

Answer 15

:>

Answer 16

i had that problem

Answer 17

well i still do

Answer 18

I can say, are the memories bad? Do you want to lose her? Even if you don't see her you still have the thought of her. Isn't that good? Sure therapy may "help" but it won't work as well as caring for someone who had left you.

Answer 19

It's unhealthy to be attached to someone that isn't in your life anymore, Yeah it's gonna hurt trying to let go I understand but it's best to move on. This could cause depression *imo*

Try not thinking of them, Yeah memories exist n all but you need to let go,

Answer 20

just think about the good she left you with

Answer 21

No the memories were the best ive ever made with another person but she moved away long time ago. I know that she's gone and I'm trying not to think about it but to me I couldn't just abandon her like that. Its like disrespecting the good in my life

Answer 22

But i see what you all mean and I just guess its something I have to come to terms with and move on slowly

Answer 23

Salt, ok you don't NEED to live just replace her or whatever but it's best to move on.

It's going to hurt you more if you stay attached. I learned that the hard way.

Answer 24

Sure

Answer 25

Thanks for the opinions guys

Answer 26

mhh