How do I get over someone
He just broke up with me and now I can't even stand being in the same room a him. Every time I see him I want to break down and cry. How do I get over him. I can't even be within 4 feet of him. Every time my friends talk about him I have to leave. How do I get over him?

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TotallyNotJay · Answer

let ur feelings out, then do something that makes you feel better

Chinky · Answer

i've tried letting my feelings out and i just want to break down even more

TotallyNotJay · Answer

well what is something that makes you happy either than him

Chinky · Answer

um... reading but that doesn't occupy me for long

TotallyNotJay · Answer

what about watching funny vids, or music, maybe drawing?

Chinky · Answer

i've tried most of these things and it doesn't occupy me

Chinky · Answer

my brain always wonders to him

badboy1557 · Answer

Give yourself some time, think of yourself stop thinking about someone who already broke you in pieces. Dont thinkbof someone who hurted you even though they meant so much to you or even though he was or she was the only perosn who loved you. And crying is normal when you have been used to someone been there and they're not anymore, dont be afraid to let out your emotions, just give yourself some time to find out what to do next its not about others opinions on how to get over someone its about your own opinion in telling yourself that you need to get over him. Its all about time.

Sailor · Answer

What I would suggest is ignoring them if they're in the same room as you. If you did absolutely nothing to deserve being broken up with, the you should hang up whatever feelings you have for him and hold your head up high. If you have to, then just straight up take on a hobby that you do/or haven't ever done. And when your friends talk about him, tune it out by doing something or listening to music. If that doesn't work then simply ask your friends to change the subject.

TotallyNotJay · Answer

you shouldn't waste your time on someone who doesn't love you

Sailor · Answer

@totallynotjay wrote:

you shouldn't waste your time on someone who doesn't love you

This is genuinely true. I wasted my time on someone like that, and it didn't do any good.

Chinky · Answer

thanx for the advice.

TotallyNotJay · Answer

Np

Sailor · Answer

Anytime Chinky.

badboy1557 · Answer

Yo welcome. To be honest its more about yourself than anyone else.