Considering going to Neumont College(Utah)
Is it okay to be that far from my future newborn,girlfriend, and family? It's a little over 3 hours by plane, which I think I can manage
I'm torn, because I want to, not need to be there for her.I'm still thinking about it, but if I do decide yes. How do I tell everyone?
Do not come on this post if you're gonna be a jerk about this, don't know what I'm talking about, or have no legitimate advice. I'll let you know if what you're saying is not helpful. :)
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Porque:
dawg has a whole family
Porque:
u should be there for ur fam tbh
xxemilianaxx:
Well i suggest frequent video calls and all that but if that's what you truly want and to get a education go for it and be what you want in life in order to provide for your family. its not selfish for doing something for you
Porque:
actually why r u asking literal teens abt a serious adult problem lol
xxemilianaxx:
because teens are open minded and most ppl on here are teens and others early 20s
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Porque:
@xxemilianaxx wrote:
because teens are open minded and most ppl on here are teens and others early 20s
teens dont know , brains aint even done developing ask AULTS with experience
Porque:
bros onna homework site for advice thatll affect his and his fams life
velmalovesshaggy145:
@porque wrote:
actually why r u asking literal teens abt a serious adult problem lol
I'm really just asking for advice since a small percentage of you talk with sense and /or mature. But it doesnt matter anyway, cuz its my decision
Porque:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
@porque wrote:
actually why r u asking literal teens abt a serious adult problem lol
I'm really just asking for advice since a small percentage of you talk with sense and /or mature. But it doesnt matter anyway, cuz its my decision
oh a hw site dude... ask like reddit or sum LOL
xxemilianaxx:
What do you want to do @velmalovesshaggy145
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velmalovesshaggy145:
@porque wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
@porque wrote:
actually why r u asking literal teens abt a serious adult problem lol
I'm really just asking for advice since a small percentage of you talk with sense and /or mature. But it doesnt matter anyway, cuz its my decision
oh a hw site dude... ask like reddit or sum LOL
ohhhhhhhh. Bro discord is literally an open tab.
Porque:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
@porque wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
@porque wrote:
actually why r u asking literal teens abt a serious adult problem lol
I'm really just asking for advice since a small percentage of you talk with sense and /or mature. But it doesnt matter anyway, cuz its my decision
oh a hw site dude... ask like reddit or sum LOL
ohhhhhhhh. Bro discord is literally an open tab.
ppl on reddit help allot
velmalovesshaggy145:
@xxemilianaxx wrote:
What do you want to do @velmalovesshaggy145
I want to be there for my loved ones, but this is an opportunity that aligns with my future career and desired degree,greatly.
xxemilianaxx:
yeah i get that so do what would be best for your family and that would be attending college in order to get your career and provide for them. it may be hard but its what best for everyone and when the term ends or vacation you go visit them
velmalovesshaggy145:
@xxemilianaxx wrote:
yeah i get that so do what would be best for your family and that would be attending college in order to get your career and provide for them. it may be hard but its what best for everyone and when the term ends or vacation you go visit them
ty for the advice. Medal.
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velmalovesshaggy145:
I knew they were people on here who talk with sense. Respectfully
xxemilianaxx:
Well im not a teen and ive been through a similar situation
Porque:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I knew they were people on here who talk with sense. Respectfully
yes ty hw site(try reddit srsly)
velmalovesshaggy145:
@porque wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I knew they were people on here who talk with sense. Respectfully
yes ty hw site(try reddit srsly)
About to in discord rn
luhivqqcherry:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
@porque wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I knew they were people on here who talk with sense. Respectfully
yes ty hw site(try reddit srsly)
About to in discord rn
ask instagram .
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velmalovesshaggy145:
Overloading on sites to ask this question on.
velmalovesshaggy145:
She follows me on insta.
luhivqqcherry:
I think you should cancel going to college tbh .
velmalovesshaggy145:
I think I need to consider this a little bit more then, talk to her tbh
velmalovesshaggy145:
@luhivqqcherry wrote:
I think you should cancel going to college tbh .
going to college
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velmalovesshaggy145:
respectfully
CrumbCrumbington:
bros becoming a generic black stereotype, walking out on his kids
CrumbCrumbington:
as a dad, you're supposed to raise your kids dude they become your #1 priority that's just messed up smh
CrumbCrumbington:
think twice before you stick it in
luhivqqcherry:
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
bros becoming a generic black stereotype, walking out on his kids
reall .
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toga:
It's completely understandable to feel torn about being far from your loved ones, especially during an important time like the birth of a child. It's important to weigh the pros and cons of your decision, including the benefits of attending Neumont College and the potential impact on your relationships.
If you do decide to attend Neumont College, it's important to communicate your decision with your girlfriend, family, and anyone else who may be affected by your absence. Be honest and open about your reasons for wanting to attend the college and your commitment to maintaining your relationships while you're away. You can also discuss ways to stay connected, such as scheduling regular phone or video calls, sending care packages, or planning visits when possible.
Ultimately, the decision is yours to make, but it's important to consider all factors and make the best decision for yourself, your girlfriend, and your family
toga:
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
bros becoming a generic black stereotype, walking out on his kids
that is it I am done with this jerk
velmalovesshaggy145:
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
think twice before you stick it in
Helpful, but not helpful. Being a jerk about it.
velmalovesshaggy145:
Bro who said I'm walking out on them.
velmalovesshaggy145:
No one.
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CrumbCrumbington:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
Bro who said I'm walking out on them.
you're ditching them for college
CrumbCrumbington:
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
Bro who said I'm walking out on them.
you're ditching them for college
3 hours is still a long time away
toga:
@crumbcrumbington stop
CrumbCrumbington:
Your kids are your priority, not no degree, If you didn't want to have the responsibility you shoulda put a condom on
velmalovesshaggy145:
Just because this happened does not mean that everything I was looking forward to gets put on hold.
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velmalovesshaggy145:
I did you idiot
CrumbCrumbington:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
Just because this happened does not mean that everything I was looking forward to gets put on hold.
That's how its supposed to be??
CrumbCrumbington:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I did you idiot
"future newborn" Did you nut in her or not??
velmalovesshaggy145:
I'm going to take a
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I did you idiot
"future newborn" Did you nut in her or not??
You're out of line.
CrumbCrumbington:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I'm going to take a
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I did you idiot
"future newborn" Did you nut in her or not??
You're out of line.
cry about it.
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toga:
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
Your kids are your priority, not no degree, If you didn't want to have the responsibility you shoulda put a condom on
a college degree will give him opportunities to get good jobs.
velmalovesshaggy145:
Cried enough. I've come to terms with it.Time to make a decision
CrumbCrumbington:
@toga wrote:
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
Your kids are your priority, not no degree, If you didn't want to have the responsibility you shoulda put a condom on
a college degree will give him opportunities to get good jobs.
He's also ditching his kid as well, especially when its in dire need of a father. Me personally, I would got my crap in line before I ever thought of even sticking it in. All because you wanna do school doesn't mean you ditch your child/children. that's stupid and lame.
velmalovesshaggy145:
Bro you need to learn to be sensitive to people's problems.
CrumbCrumbington:
A child is a commitment not no "Hey I had a kid, so what"
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CrumbCrumbington:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
Bro you need to learn to be sensitive to people's problems.
I don't kiss anyone's butt dude.
toga:
@crumbcrumbington stop now
velmalovesshaggy145:
I'm not ditching them. I don't have to explain what I plan to do, and the decision I am considering. I'm not that kind of man. You are out of line, now get off my post.
toga:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I'm not ditching them. I don't have to explain what I plan to do, and the decision I am considering. I'm not that kind of man. You are out of line, now get off my post.
I know you are not you are a good man
toga:
@toga wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I'm not ditching them. I don't have to explain what I plan to do, and the decision I am considering. I'm not that kind of man. You are out of line, now get off my post.
I know you are not you are a good man
do not let anyone tell that you are not
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velmalovesshaggy145:
Like i said, It's my decision. A small percentage of you talk with sense and are helpful. Which is obviously not you. Do you think I'm only asking people on qc? You are an idiot. Grow up kiddo. Leave me alone, stop with the names, stop being rude, and an overall jerk. I don't block, so unless you want endless fights I'd suggest you back off.
umm:
Completely understand what may be hard in this situation. What are your thoughts about it so far?
emilioshearts:
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velmalovesshaggy145:
@umm wrote:
Completely understand what may be hard in this situation. What are your thoughts about it so far?
It's hard growing up in a short amount of time. I don't know if abandoning what I've been working towards this senior year is the right move, I will be there for her and the baby. But right now I believe that outside sources aren't helping. I wonder if she will respect my choice or be disappointed in me not being there. Even if I take a gap year, going to Neumont would feel dull ngl. Overall, this is my choice. I'm looking into neumont, its pros and cons. It checks all the boxes from what ive seen so far, so it is the one out of state college that is tied with second, UL.
emilioshearts:
free my zigga crumb
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free my zigga crumb
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emilioshearts:
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umm:
Even if it’s 3 hours apart, I feel like just constantly communicating, being there to support both of them still goes a long way. There’s also other ways around it, like even just meeting up halfway from both locations to still be in the picture.
Both aspects are important, sure, be keep in mind what you feel like you need to do. That doesn’t mean neglecting the child as some think is the suggestion here. It’s definitely hard balancing academics with starting a family even if it’s planned or unplanned. If even considered if you staying with the two, see if they allow online courses for what you plan on majoring in.
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emilioshearts:
@toga wrote:
@emilioshearts wrote:
free my zigga crumb
my guy, you are bypassing the language filter
zigga isnt a bad word
umm:
Can you two (@toga and @emilioshearts) refrain from commenting unless it has to deal with the question at hand, please? It’s getting off topic.
toga:
@umm wrote:
Can you two (@toga and @emilioshearts) refrain from commenting unless it has to deal with the question at hand, please? It’s getting off topic.
ok sorry
velmalovesshaggy145:
@umm wrote:
Even if it’s 3 hours apart, I feel like just constantly communicating, being there to support both of them still goes a long way. There’s also other ways around it, like even just meeting up halfway from both locations to still be in the picture.
Both aspects are important, sure, be keep in mind what you feel like you need to do. That doesn’t mean neglecting the child as some think is the suggestion here. It’s definitely hard balancing academics with starting a family even if it’s planned or unplanned. If even considered if you staying with the two, see if they allow online courses for what you plan on majoring in.
B.A. in Computer Science, Software & Game Development
emilioshearts:
@umm wrote:
Can you two (@toga and @emilioshearts) refrain from commenting unless it has to deal with the question at hand, please? It’s getting off topic.
guh
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velmalovesshaggy145:
@umm wrote:
Can you two (@toga and @emilioshearts) refrain from commenting unless it has to deal with the question at hand, please? It’s getting off topic.
It worked. thanks sarah
umm:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
@umm wrote:
Even if it’s 3 hours apart, I feel like just constantly communicating, being there to support both of them still goes a long way. There’s also other ways around it, like even just meeting up halfway from both locations to still be in the picture.
Both aspects are important, sure, be keep in mind what you feel like you need to do. That doesn’t mean neglecting the child as some think is the suggestion here. It’s definitely hard balancing academics with starting a family even if it’s planned or unplanned. If even considered if you staying with the two, see if they allow online courses for what you plan on majoring in.
B.A. in Computer Science, Software & Game Development
Were you given a scholarship here?
There’s also consideration in online classes, and with the majors you’re applying for, there’s plenty which wouldn’t require you to move 3 hours away.
velmalovesshaggy145:
@umm wrote:
@velmalovesshaggy145 wrote:
I thought that I should do online classes, I should be able to after considering going to the college, I could make the transition
@umm wrote:
Even if it’s 3 hours apart, I feel like just constantly communicating, being there to support both of them still goes a long way. There’s also other ways around it, like even just meeting up halfway from both locations to still be in the picture.
Both aspects are important, sure, be keep in mind what you feel like you need to do. That doesn’t mean neglecting the child as some think is the suggestion here. It’s definitely hard balancing academics with starting a family even if it’s planned or unplanned. If even considered if you staying with the two, see if they allow online courses for what you plan on majoring in.
B.A. in Computer Science, Software & Game Development
Were you given a scholarship here?
There’s also consideration in online classes, and with the majors you’re applying for, there’s plenty which wouldn’t require you to move 3 hours away.
Porque:
@toga wrote:
@crumbcrumbington wrote:
bros becoming a generic black stereotype, walking out on his kids
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Porque:
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