At This point, I'm uncomfy.
Mods, We need a GOOD TALK!
Mods, I've put myself as my pfp, and that shouldn't be weird! I acknowledge, yes I AM A MINOR. And I keep getting PM's from GROWN MEN. This is a huge issue. People are coming out of their way to predatory young people, and It's making me uncomfortable, can someone else second me on this?
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Lui0210:
Have you tried, ya know, dming a mod directly?
4uDr1:
womp womp
curriful:
this should prolly be sent to the mods or put in the questioncove feedback subject, but yes i do. there has been many instances of p*dophiles popping up on here and trying to talk with minors, not just with me (i promptly blocked them) but with many others and only a few receiving punishment. they can't stay online bc they have actual jobs and their own life to worry about as well as this website, but maybe hiring mods that can cover some sort of shift for when ppl in north america are asleep (hiring people with a way different timeline) would be kinda better. qc is a sorta small website after all, they cant really afford the mods like that , or something like an ai that looks over the posts and gives people the punishment they deserve. ai probably wouldnt be the best bc it might false ban sometimes, but it is something that could PROBABLY happen with the right amount of help from others. in all, qc does have a p*do problem but it is best for us to try and help the mods + the founders catch and ban those people from the website. :3
curriful:
putting ur actual face as ur pfp also gives u a higher risk of being somewhat targeted. simply making ur pfp a woman could get u targeted (i had mine as one for a week and got a TON of dms), so i suggest keeping yourself safe from things like this by not doing it as much, but it's still alright to do. rlly js keep urself safe, and try to help others become safer as well. :3
curriful:
again, this is a small site and the small mod team is trying their best to stop it all. we just gotta be patient. that's kinda our only hope. :3
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curriful:
p.s. , jaynator isnt actually always on, he programmed the website to make it look like so. ;)
Limitless2:
js leave qc ;-;
curriful:
^
this is a good choice too :3
Aratox:
Or set your profile picture to something non-human related, like a picture of your favorite bird. I'm not necessarily implying that you have to do this, although it may stop people from messaging you like this.
carlosbigbain:
idk who would be measaging you lmao im 15 (a minor ) and would neva come close to that lmao
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carlosbigbain:
jus sayin 🤷
sxlvergxge:
@lui0210 wrote:
Have you tried, ya know, dming a mod directly?
Yes! Why do you think I'm posting this?
This is happening to more than just me!
carlosbigbain:
And i repeat which eva guys be textin u must be despret lmaoo quit being a pick me girl and just change ur pfp if not then deal with the measages
carlosbigbain:
womp womp 🤷
carlosbigbain:
jus sayin 🤷🤷🤷🤷
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XxMimiXx:
Or you could block them 🤷
carlosbigbain:
or just leave qc its not that serious lmao
XxMimiXx:
It happens lol can't do much about it tbh 👀
XxMimiXx:
@carlosbigbain wrote:
or just leave qc its not that serious lmao
Or that, if ur not comfortable just leave Qc 🤷
Aratox:
If you're getting disrespected by them, the report button exists, as well as the block button. First, I'd say that you should report the messages that they sent, and then block the user until the mods have taken further action. @sxlvergxge
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carlosbigbain:
pick me girls be evolving now-a-days
XxMimiXx:
And if you don't like any of these recommendations, just leave 👀 like we said lol
x100Thievesx:
ya see what i mean.
x100Thievesx:
@sxlvergxge
Aratox:
@dude Please check out this post
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sxlvergxge:
@aratox wrote:
If you're getting disrespected by them, the report button exists, as well as the block button. First, I'd say that you should report the messages that they sent, and then block the user until the mods have taken further action. @sxlvergxge
That's what I've been doing so far! I try to fan people who are in my friend group, or moots, but I constantly get asked "vc" by random people over the age of 18 and when I ask why, they either just deflect or get right to the chase.
XxMimiXx:
Then block 😌
carlosbigbain:
who ? you saying people over 18 miss pick me girl aint no one wanna talk to u cuh
carlosbigbain:
go ahead ignore my responce cause you know im right ya aint got no one lmao
carlosbigbain:
Pov: beg for attention with out actually begging 🤷
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Aratox:
@sxlvergxge wrote:
@aratox wrote:
If you're getting disrespected by them, the report button exists, as well as the block button. First, I'd say that you should report the messages that they sent, and then block the user until the mods have taken further action. @sxlvergxge
That's what I've been doing so far! I try to fan people who are in my friend group, or moots, but I constantly get asked "vc" by random people over the age of 18 and when I ask why, they either just deflect or get right to the chase.
I still suggest that you report their messages and block them, that's the best way that you can report pedophiles on here. Otherwise, talk to the mod team, they're doing the best they can, juggling in between real life jobs and their mod job here at QuestionCove.
y2kmwah:
theres rlly nun u can do but block an change the pfp
XxMimiXx:
@y2kmwah wrote:
theres rlly nun u can do but block an change the pfp
They can also leave Qc like we been saying ðŸ˜
y2kmwah:
@xxmimixx wrote:
@y2kmwah wrote:
theres rlly nun u can do but block an change the pfp
They can also leave Qc like we been saying ðŸ˜
yeah also theres not ppl that old the oldest i met was 18 to 21
carlosbigbain:
lol go ahead report my comment i literly have well over 50 warnings and tons of chat suspensions cause ppl like you im doing nothing but saying the truth consider my comments spam or off topic but yet this entire post is spam and not related to school
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y2kmwah:
aye idk y they text u u not the cutest they go for the ugly ones on here ig
carlosbigbain:
@y2kmwah wrote:
aye idk y they text u u not the cutest they go for the ugly ones on here ig
IM SAYING CUHHH I SAID SAME THINGG BROO BUT GOT WARNING
Aratox:
@y2kmwah wrote:
aye idk y they text u u not the cutest they go for the ugly ones on here ig
Please avoid making harmful comments on here.
y2kmwah:
sorry
Luigi0210:
At this point it's becoming spam, so just to reiterate:
- If you've already messaged a moderator about it, then there is no need for this point. Talk with them to figure things out.
- If a person is persistent, block and report them/the message sent.
- And don't send/click on VC links... that's why that rule is in place.
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carlosbigbain:
@aratox wrote:
@y2kmwah wrote:
aye idk y they text u u not the cutest they go for the ugly ones on here ig
Please avoid making harmful comments on here.
you encuraging the pick me is wild
y2kmwah:
sometimes they dk how old u are jus block them but is this not spam!?
Luigi0210:
Stop posting now.
carlosbigbain:
@y2kmwah wrote:
sometimes they dk how old u are jus block them but is this not spam!?
exactly what i said once again howw ya gonna report me abt spam on a spam post 🤷
sxlvergxge:
@carlosbigbain wrote:
@y2kmwah wrote:
sometimes they dk how old u are jus block them but is this not spam!?
exactly what i said once again howw ya gonna report me abt spam on a spam post 🤷
It's not a spam post it's a genuine problem?
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y2kmwah:
BLOCK THEM THEN TF
carlosbigbain:
that no one cares about so text mods instead of posting i really hope i dont see your profile again, BYE
XxMimiXx:
We gave you answers, take it or leave the site atp
sxlvergxge:
@dude I'm willing to stoop to their level
someone needs to stop them or me
y2kmwah:
bruh stop posting on this block them or get of the site
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XxMimiXx:
Girl...come on now ðŸ˜, just block them, report them and go on about your day smh, why do u keep going on about it? it happens, just do what we said and move on!
curriful:
@carlosbigbain wrote:
womp womp 🤷
WOMP WOMP??
y2kmwah:
we cant control weird creepy men and we never will be able too
Shadow:
@sxlvergxge I'm currently reading through this post. I locked it earlier as I wasn't able to attend to it just yet. I've also moved it to the Questioncove Feedback section.
My first thoughts is that when this happens, you should block the user, report them, and if a mod is online, message them. I am not always online or at my computer, but if you reach out to me via the QC Discord, I can usually respond within the hour.
Dealing with those who prey on minors is something we take absolutely seriously, but we depend on the users informing us of these actions, as we are not omniscient (all knowing, all seeing). We cannot help you or protect you if we do not know what's going on. For example, it appears you haven't reported any of the people who have dmed you.
carlosbigbain:
cmon shadow be real you know whats going on here its like i said in other responces
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Shadow:
@curriful wrote:
putting ur actual face as ur pfp also gives u a higher risk of being somewhat targeted. simply making ur pfp a woman could get u targeted (i had mine as one for a week and got a TON of dms), so i suggest keeping yourself safe from things like this by not doing it as much, but it's still alright to do. rlly js keep urself safe, and try to help others become safer as well. :3
This is also good advice. It's unfortunate, but men / boys these days don't know how to control themselves.
sxlvergxge:
@shadow wrote:
@curriful wrote:
putting ur actual face as ur pfp also gives u a higher risk of being somewhat targeted. simply making ur pfp a woman could get u targeted (i had mine as one for a week and got a TON of dms), so i suggest keeping yourself safe from things like this by not doing it as much, but it's still alright to do. rlly js keep urself safe, and try to help others become safer as well. :3
This is also good advice. It's unfortunate, but men / boys these days don't know how to control themselves.
PREACH. ONE OF THE ONLY RESPECTABLE MEN I'VE EVER MET ON QC
"It's unfortunate, but men / boys these days don't know how to control themselves."
Talk about the problem guys!! If you say nothing, you are the problem!! TAKE NOTES!! (For all the people who want to help the situation in gen, not just on QC!)
Shadow:
At the same time, if you don't report these people who dmed you, you aren't allowing them to be held accountable.
Shadow:
If you won't address it yourself to them (which I am not saying you have to do), then you should at least report them so I or another mod can. I am not sure why you chose to make a public post on this as opposed to reporting these users.
Shadow:
@carlosbigbain wrote:
cmon shadow be real you know whats going on here its like i said in other responces
I read your comments and I see the point you're making. However, you make it in a rude and ineffectual manner. Nobody is enticed to change or be forthcoming when you bash them with your words. You may choose to think you're standing on a place of righteousness, and perhaps you ARE right. But the way you chose to go about it doesn't lead anywhere productive.
If this happens again, I will not hesitate to suspend you.
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carlosbigbain:
🤷
Shadow:
If you live as a person who doesn't practice virtue or accountability, that's what you will become.
carlosbigbain:
0_0
sxlvergxge:
Shadow legit ate you up tho
Period!!!!
(Thank you @Shadow being an absolute legend and being the only mod so far who I've seen [YET AGAIN. SO. FAR.] who as addressed this kind of thing in a PUBLIC POST. Because it needed to be talked about and people on QC should feel safe here!)
carlosbigbain:
womp
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