Guys I have a serious issue and it's advancing...

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Spectrum · Answer

There's this girl at school who was messaging me over and over again, so I told some school officials and they talked to her and she stopped messaging me but she just SOMEHOW happens to end up exactly where I am, for example when I'm sitting beside my teacher's door before the first bell rings she just shows up and knocks on the door and it ain't even her teacher, and what's crazy is she keeps coming in my geometry class for "help" too. She's finding any excuse to get near me and I don't want her around me. What do I do? I can't call authorities cause she hasn't made any physical advances but she won't stay away from me and I don't feel safe in my own skin. I'm trapped and I don't know what to do. I'm scared. She keeps showing up wherever I go and it's not a coincidence, she's following me where I go.

ShadowKid3 · Answer

If you don't feel safe contact a trusted adult and they can help you from there

qiqi · Answer

Do not engage. Ignore the person at all cost. Always be with someone you know.

- Have you told your parents and the adults in the school about the person?
- Let your teacher know about it too, or better, let the school know. I am pretty sure that you should have a guidance counsellor. 
- Document everything from the responses of the adults regarding your situation . Also, collect evidence that you are being stalked (take pics or vids while they are stalking you discreetly)
- If no one helped, check for child protecive services in your area and let them know that you are being stalked plus how your school dealt with it. 
- Best thing that they would do is they will help you file a restraining order otherwise, go to the police with the documentations.

Spectrum · Answer

Okay. I've got one piece. It's kind of hard to take photos when I don't have a phone.

whyjustwhy · Answer

give her massive side eyes and take her in a isolated place and beat her up JKJKJK, no i have a similar experience and my school has this thing called a no contact contract, ask the for smth like that

Spectrum · Answer

It's called a stay-away order here and I can't get one unless she gets physical. I swear to god if she does I'm going to kill her. She has a crush on me smh...

abound · Answer

Shoot her

ShadowKid3 · Answer

@abound wrote:

Shoot her

You can't legally shoot someone without evidence or proof that they're going to harm you, stalking is not a case in which you can shoot your stalker.

Spectrum · Answer

Do not make it spam.

Aratox · Answer

My theory is that she likes you but is too afraid to admit it - unless she's making menacing approaches toward you or threatening remarks, in which case the best thing to do would be to avoid her and/or tell a trusted adult.

Gucchi · Answer

@spectrum wrote:

It's called a stay-away order here and I can't get one unless she gets physical. I swear to god if she does I'm going to kill her. She has a crush on me smh...

she's jus into u twin

karissafrazier · Answer

no she's actually stalking him

PureSoulless · Answer

If she's that desperate, just bring her to your room.

Manny300303199 · Answer

it could be considered harassment. so you could call the law. but i dont know what they would say.

abound · Answer

@shadowkid3 wrote:

@abound wrote:

Shoot her

You can't legally shoot someone without evidence or proof that they're going to harm you, stalking is not a case in which you can shoot your stalker.

Holy yappingotn

Rosee5656 · Answer

okay that's crazy...

Rosee5656 · Answer

TBH I THINK SMB HAS A LIL CRUSHH ONN YOUUUUUU....oooo

Spectrum · Answer

@gucchi wrote:

@spectrum wrote:

It's called a stay-away order here and I can't get one unless she gets physical. I swear to god if she does I'm going to kill her. She has a crush on me smh...

she's jus into u twin

Yeah but it’s getting creepy.

Spectrum · Answer

Yeah the school sheriff told me that.

Spectrum · Answer

@puresoulless wrote:

If she's that desperate, just bring her to your room.

Hell no!

Spectrum · Answer

I tried to change where I go to my classes like the way I go, but she’ll still follow me. It’s a serious issue that needs to be resolved, but I don’t know how to do it.

Aratox · Answer

@spectrum wrote:

I tried to change where I go to my classes like the way I go, but she’ll still follow me. It’s a serious issue that needs to be resolved, but I don’t know how to do it.

Have you thought about talking to her about it? Maybe she's into you, and you haven't thought of it.

Spectrum · Answer

Oh trust me she is. I’ve known that for a while now.

Spectrum · Answer

I don’t want her. I’ve made that very clear.

Spectrum · Answer

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Aratox · Answer

@spectrum wrote:

https://questioncove.com#/6627c7f059e474251b91dc00

real

Spectrum · Answer

@Aratox I gave you the wrong link https://questioncove.com/study#/updates/6627c7f059e474251b91dc00

Spectrum · Answer

I wrote that, it's about her. It's before the update on the situation.

GoatyGoat · Answer

@spectrum wrote:

There's this girl at school who was messaging me over and over again, so I told some school officials and they talked to her and she stopped messaging me but she just SOMEHOW happens to end up exactly where I am, for example when I'm sitting beside my teacher's door before the first bell rings she just shows up and knocks on the door and it ain't even her teacher, and what's crazy is she keeps coming in my geometry class for "help" too. She's finding any excuse to get near me and I don't want her around me. What do I do? I can't call authorities cause she hasn't made any physical advances but she won't stay away from me and I don't feel safe in my own skin. I'm trapped and I don't know what to do. I'm scared. She keeps showing up wherever I go and it's not a coincidence, she's following me where I go.

Just put a restraining order against her which keeps her away from u

hannahj · Answer

@aratox wrote:

My theory is that she likes you but is too afraid to admit it - unless she's making menacing approaches toward you or threatening remarks, in which case the best thing to do would be to avoid her and/or tell a trusted adult.

Maybe just walk up to her and say I don't like you maybe she'll stop then you never know

Aratox · Answer

@hannahj wrote:

@aratox wrote:

My theory is that she likes you but is too afraid to admit it - unless she's making menacing approaches toward you or threatening remarks, in which case the best thing to do would be to avoid her and/or tell a trusted adult.

Maybe just walk up to her and say I don't like you maybe she'll stop then you never know

Spectrum already told me in DMs that he's told her that he doesn't like her, at this point it seems like she's obsessing over him

hannahj · Answer

@aratox wrote:

@hannahj wrote:

@aratox wrote:

My theory is that she likes you but is too afraid to admit it - unless she's making menacing approaches toward you or threatening remarks, in which case the best thing to do would be to avoid her and/or tell a trusted adult.

Maybe just walk up to her and say I don't like you maybe she'll stop then you never know

Spectrum already told me in DMs that he's told her that he doesn't like her, at this point it seems like she's obsessing over him

That girl needs help

KIllerwolfdaone · Answer

@spectrum wrote:

There's this girl at school who was messaging me over and over again, so I told some school officials and they talked to her and she stopped messaging me but she just SOMEHOW happens to end up exactly where I am, for example when I'm sitting beside my teacher's door before the first bell rings she just shows up and knocks on the door and it ain't even her teacher, and what's crazy is she keeps coming in my geometry class for "help" too. She's finding any excuse to get near me and I don't want her around me. What do I do? I can't call authorities cause she hasn't made any physical advances but she won't stay away from me and I don't feel safe in my own skin. I'm trapped and I don't know what to do. I'm scared. She keeps showing up wherever I go and it's not a coincidence, she's following me where I go.

If you don’t feel comfortable about it, Maybe ask her why she’s doing all this, if she doesn’t give you a valid answer then stay around friends too, and go speak to a trusted adult

KIllerwolfdaone · Answer

It's important to take your safety and comfort seriously. You should speak to a school counselor or another trusted adult about the situation immediately. They can help assess the situation and provide guidance on how to address it effectively. Document any instances of her behavior if possible, and communicate your concerns clearly to the school authorities. It's crucial to seek support and take steps to ensure your well-being.

HotPockets14 · Answer

its important to get help from a adult, if the adults don't do anything, I would get a PFA, but I would think long and hard for a PFA cause then one of you would have to move schools and everything,

StevenisGhost · Answer

so you have a crush???