Quick question for everyone when do you know when to move on like I'm js stuck he send mixed signals like we can be very flirty with each other and then we both act like nothing is going on between us I really do like him but so many people have asked him about me and he says he does not like me idk what to do tbh

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Autumnx · Answer

I habe this same problem so I totally get it, from personal experience I don't really have an idea. Personally I think that they just want someone they can flirt with on the side but not attach to and they don't want something serious they just want to play around. That might not be the case and you probably should talk to him about it, because if he's just playing wit your feelings he's just gonna keep doing it cause you let him. I'm sorry if he is playing with your feelings and I'm here if you want to discuss further.

GenesisGG · Answer

@autumnx wrote:

I habe this same problem so I totally get it, from personal experience I don't really have an idea. Personally I think that they just want someone they can flirt with on the side but not attach to and they don't want something serious they just want to play around. That might not be the case and you probably should talk to him about it, because if he's just playing wit your feelings he's just gonna keep doing it cause you let him. I'm sorry if he is playing with your feelings and I'm here if you want to discuss further.

Well we have already dated but something really bad happened it I was horrible and I broke it off and during the ends of school I fixed it and we started talking again then he f up really bad I can tell you what happened in private tho

ykbatman · Answer

whatchu do is

ykbatman · Answer

block him

ykbatman · Answer

and try to move on

ykbatman · Answer

cuz he a player gang

sllo · Answer

If he’s flirting with you but then telling other people he doesn’t like you, that’s a huge red flag. Actions speak louder than words, but if the two aren’t matching, it’s worth paying attention to the inconsistency. You shouldn’t have to guess how someone feels about you. If he’s not giving you the energy and clarity you deserve, it might be time to let go and focus on someone who will. You shouldn’t have to deal with someone who leaves you stuck in limbo. You’re worth more than that.

kristen000021 · Answer

@sllo wrote:

If he’s flirting with you but then telling other people he doesn’t like you, that’s a huge red flag. Actions speak louder than words, but if the two aren’t matching, it’s worth paying attention to the inconsistency. You shouldn’t have to guess how someone feels about you. If he’s not giving you the energy and clarity you deserve, it might be time to let go and focus on someone who will. You shouldn’t have to deal with someone who leaves you stuck in limbo. You’re worth more than that.

agreed

YoursTruly1234 · Answer

yes

KingOfRest · Answer

this sounds confusing like if he says he doesn't like you but then acts flirty. maybe yall need to work it out together and ask him directly for clarity and if he is not feeling the same then it is time to move on from him and move forward with life. because you deserve someone who is clear.