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SnowyBreaks:

People complain and complain about how their bf's and gf's leave them. You gotta understand, its apart of life. grow up and stop complaining. Not tryna be rude. But like, The only thing that should matter is family and that is all you need

Gdub08:

Exactly. Family is all we need.

Gdub08:

Family, Faith, and Friends.

Gdub08:

If someone is complaing over a breakup, then they need to accept the fact that their are other people out their. It just means that person wasn't best for you. If you can't do that, then you're probably obsessing over someone

cherryblossom999:

wrd, also your right. but some people don't have families and give their all to their lover. Which is understandable YK? and if your in a relationship with sum1, don't complainn just enjoy it while it lasts. because relationships wont last forever and once its done, you'll go back to remember the fun times with your lover YK?? so there is no point to complain Abt a breakup. just enjoy the time you had spent with them.

theydontknowally:

preach

TheFixer:

this is real. some people needa just grow up.

Breathless:

FACTS

Breathless:

THANK YOU

SnowyBreaks:

ye

Drcola:

Felt honestly

euphoriiic:

ig

adrianluvvsyouu2:

It would seem you are yet to experience what these people have felt. Why critique others for complaining about (most likely) a great deal of pain they have endured? Ignorance is bliss. There are greater issue in this world for you to care about, people expressing their emotions by complaining is certainly not a problem. Death is a part of life, do you complain when people grieve over losing their loved ones? I would assume not.

adrianluvvsyouu2:

issues* excuse my writing

SnowyBreaks:

I wasnt talking Abt death

adrianluvvsyouu2:

Read the other things I wrote. I was drawing a comparison, you are losing a loved one through death, or because they left you. It's a somewhat similar scenario. I asked you, "Why critique others for complaining about (most likely) a great deal of pain they have endured?"

SnowyBreaks:

but people just need to know people come and go. but family stays. I'm not trying to create negativity

adrianluvvsyouu2:

I'm not arguing that people don't come and go. They do. What I'm arguing is that you are either ignorant or have a lack of empathy towards others expressing their pain and struggles. A break up is not easy, and your response shows you haven't experienced it. The phrase ignorance is bliss means that those who do not know about a problem, should not concern themselves with it. Let people express their emotions, it's not a bad thing. Breakups are challenging, being upset does not indicate they need to "grow up"

SnowyBreaks:

I have experienced them

adrianluvvsyouu2:

Then you should be able to see their situation and offer them grace. "Why critique others for complaining about (most likely) a great deal of pain they have endured?"

SaltySuga:

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