Why do I not have self confidence?

Question

zionn · Answer

Bc you're nervous

d0nn11 · Answer

@zionn wrote:

Bc you're nervous

dang that makes a lot of sense man.

adreonnaRaeee · Answer

there's a lot of reasons im sure... why do you not believe in yourself? someone make you feel that way?

d0nn11 · Answer

@adreonnaraeee wrote:

there's a lot of reasons im sure... why do you not believe in yourself? someone make you feel that way?

i guess i just feel i could get bullied at any moment since ive been bullied before

LoverGIRL1 · Answer

Sometimes people don’t have self confidence because of things they’ve been through being criticized a lot compared to others ignored hurt or made to feel not enough can slowly make someone doubt themselves over time that voice in your head starts repeating the negative stuff instead of the good it’s not because you’re weak or broken it’s because you learned to survive in ways that didn’t leave room for confidence yet But none of that takes away from who you really are you’re stronger than you realize and the fact that you keep going even when you doubt yourself says a lot confidence isn’t about being perfect it’s about learning to trust yourself again and you can do that one small step at a time <3

seeker · Answer

@lovergirl1 wrote:

Sometimes people don’t have self confidence because of things they’ve been through being criticized a lot compared to others ignored hurt or made to feel not enough can slowly make someone doubt themselves over time that voice in your head starts repeating the negative stuff instead of the good it’s not because you’re weak or broken it’s because you learned to survive in ways that didn’t leave room for confidence yet But none of that takes away from who you really are you’re stronger than you realize and the fact that you keep going even when you doubt yourself says a lot confidence isn’t about being perfect it’s about learning to trust yourself again and you can do that one small step at a time <3

chatgpt

LoverGIRL1 · Answer

@seeker wrote:

@lovergirl1 wrote:

Sometimes people don’t have self confidence because of things they’ve been through being criticized a lot compared to others ignored hurt or made to feel not enough can slowly make someone doubt themselves over time that voice in your head starts repeating the negative stuff instead of the good it’s not because you’re weak or broken it’s because you learned to survive in ways that didn’t leave room for confidence yet But none of that takes away from who you really are you’re stronger than you realize and the fact that you keep going even when you doubt yourself says a lot confidence isn’t about being perfect it’s about learning to trust yourself again and you can do that one small step at a time <3

chatgpt

litrally u hate on everything I say so just shut up

d0nn11 · Answer

@lovergirl1 wrote:

Sometimes people don’t have self confidence because of things they’ve been through being criticized a lot compared to others ignored hurt or made to feel not enough can slowly make someone doubt themselves over time that voice in your head starts repeating the negative stuff instead of the good it’s not because you’re weak or broken it’s because you learned to survive in ways that didn’t leave room for confidence yet But none of that takes away from who you really are you’re stronger than you realize and the fact that you keep going even when you doubt yourself says a lot confidence isn’t about being perfect it’s about learning to trust yourself again and you can do that one small step at a time <3

this helps to know thx for the confidence boost <3

LoverGIRL1 · Answer

@d0nn11 wrote:

@lovergirl1 wrote:

Sometimes people don’t have self confidence because of things they’ve been through being criticized a lot compared to others ignored hurt or made to feel not enough can slowly make someone doubt themselves over time that voice in your head starts repeating the negative stuff instead of the good it’s not because you’re weak or broken it’s because you learned to survive in ways that didn’t leave room for confidence yet But none of that takes away from who you really are you’re stronger than you realize and the fact that you keep going even when you doubt yourself says a lot confidence isn’t about being perfect it’s about learning to trust yourself again and you can do that one small step at a time <3

this helps to know thx for the confidence boost <3

so welcome love your amazing <3

adreonnaRaeee · Answer

people bully because of their own self-worth. they didnt like themselves so they tried to hurt you as well. donest mean anything is wrong with you at all. it takes time to heal from that lind of pain, you have to remind yourself that you are worth, enough... yk?

seeker · Answer

@lovergirl1 wrote:

@seeker wrote:

@lovergirl1 wrote:

Sometimes people don’t have self confidence because of things they’ve been through being criticized a lot compared to others ignored hurt or made to feel not enough can slowly make someone doubt themselves over time that voice in your head starts repeating the negative stuff instead of the good it’s not because you’re weak or broken it’s because you learned to survive in ways that didn’t leave room for confidence yet But none of that takes away from who you really are you’re stronger than you realize and the fact that you keep going even when you doubt yourself says a lot confidence isn’t about being perfect it’s about learning to trust yourself again and you can do that one small step at a time <3

chatgpt

litrally u hate on everything I say so just shut up

lmaoo

d0nn11 · Answer

@adreonnaraeee wrote:

people bully because of their own self-worth. they didnt like themselves so they tried to hurt you as well. donest mean anything is wrong with you at all. it takes time to heal from that lind of pain, you have to remind yourself that you are worth, enough... yk?

thx <3

Sailor · Answer

For the sake of seeing that the answer to the question was received (and that there's been a bit of some off topic talk in the post that doesn't belong here), I'm gonna close this post now. Please do not reply to it any further, thank you!