11:16 a.m.
You came back, telling me you’ve changed, saying you’ll stay this time, but I don’t know if I can trust you again. Part of me wants to believe you, wants to open my heart and let you in like I used to, but the past keeps holding me back. You show up late at night, just like old times, and for a second, everything feels familiar like we never stopped. But I need more than late-night visits, more than promises that sound good in the moment. I need someone who stays even when it’s hard. I want you, I really do, but I’m scared. Scared of letting you in only to have you walk away again. Scared of hoping for something that might just break me. And yet, here I am, thinking about you, wanting you here all the time, but too afraid to let myself fall again.

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unknownnnnnn · Answer

go for wat ur heart thinks, i just dont want u to be hurt again. Make sure its a good decision .. ill be here for u if u need anything

Daze01 · Answer

love what is ur first instinct? just follow that and hope for the best. Me personally don't want u getting hurt by him again :)

addison123456 · Answer

yeah I need him to see I'm here

Daze01 · Answer

just for him to see u r here? then what?

seeker · Answer

@unknownnnnnn wrote:

go for wat ur heart thinks, i just dont want u to be hurt again. Make sure its a good decision .. ill be here for u if u need anything

i did tell ths same thng to sm1 ... do wt ua heart says

addison123456 · Answer

@seeker wrote:

@unknownnnnnn wrote:

go for wat ur heart thinks, i just dont want u to be hurt again. Make sure its a good decision .. ill be here for u if u need anything

i did tell ths same thng to sm1 ... do wt ua heart says

but what if your heart is scared to get hurt but wants to run into the fire

seeker · Answer

our hearts our fool so we responsible if we put them to get hurt or on fire ... heart only knows to love or to hate ... but the decision is ours

unknownnnnnn · Answer

@addison123456 wrote:

@seeker wrote:

@unknownnnnnn wrote:

go for wat ur heart thinks, i just dont want u to be hurt again. Make sure its a good decision .. ill be here for u if u need anything

i did tell ths same thng to sm1 ... do wt ua heart says

but what if your heart is scared to get hurt but wants to run into the fire

I think it’s okay if your heart is scared that just means you care and you’re human. Being afraid doesn’t mean you’re doing the wrong thing. It just means you want to protect yourself. You don’t have to run into the fire all at once, and you don’t have to decide everything right now. Go at your own pace, listen to yourself, and remember you deserve safety and happiness too. Whatever you choose, you’re not alone.

addison123456 · Answer

its like trusting and I'm so scared to get hurt when I see the hurt coming you know.

addison123456 · Answer

@unknownnnnnn wrote:

@addison123456 wrote:

@seeker wrote:

@unknownnnnnn wrote:

go for wat ur heart thinks, i just dont want u to be hurt again. Make sure its a good decision .. ill be here for u if u need anything

i did tell ths same thng to sm1 ... do wt ua heart says

but what if your heart is scared to get hurt but wants to run into the fire

I think it’s okay if your heart is scared that just means you care and you’re human. Being afraid doesn’t mean you’re doing the wrong thing. It just means you want to protect yourself. You don’t have to run into the fire all at once, and you don’t have to decide everything right now. Go at your own pace, listen to yourself, and remember you deserve safety and happiness too. Whatever you choose, you’re not alone.

thank you and yes I just truly believe that I need to give him answers he cant receive right now. I wanna fix us but its hard and yes you are very right. I need to take care of myself

uknownprttyfacekayla · Answer

Your paragraph is emotionally honest and very well written. You clearly expresses your fear, your hope, and your need for consistency without attacking or blaming, which shows a lot of maturity. The way you explains wanting more than late night visits and empty promises sets a healthy boundary and makes your expectations clear. You also balance vulnerability with self protection, which makes your feelings feel real and justified, not dramatic. Overall, your message communicates care, pain, and self respect all at once, and anyone reading it should understand that you  aren't asking for perfection your asking for effort, stability, and honesty. If he truly loves you he will change for you and for himself you both were so cute together

unknownnnnnn · Answer

@addison123456 wrote:

@unknownnnnnn wrote:

@addison123456 wrote:

@seeker wrote:

@unknownnnnnn wrote:

go for wat ur heart thinks, i just dont want u to be hurt again. Make sure its a good decision .. ill be here for u if u need anything

i did tell ths same thng to sm1 ... do wt ua heart says

but what if your heart is scared to get hurt but wants to run into the fire

I think it’s okay if your heart is scared that just means you care and you’re human. Being afraid doesn’t mean you’re doing the wrong thing. It just means you want to protect yourself. You don’t have to run into the fire all at once, and you don’t have to decide everything right now. Go at your own pace, listen to yourself, and remember you deserve safety and happiness too. Whatever you choose, you’re not alone.

thank you and yes I just truly believe that I need to give him answers he cant receive right now. I wanna fix us but its hard and yes you are very right. I need to take care of myself

Yeah, that makes total sense. You don’t have to fix everything right now, and it’s okay if it’s hard. Giving him answers he can actually take in shows you care, but taking care of yourself matters just as much. Go at your own pace, I’m here for you.

seeker · Answer

I love this phrase .... At the end of the day, final act of pure pious love is LETTING GO 
it holds deep meaning iykyk

addison123456 · Answer

@uknownprttyfacekayla wrote:

Your paragraph is emotionally honest and very well written. You clearly expresses your fear, your hope, and your need for consistency without attacking or blaming, which shows a lot of maturity. The way you explains wanting more than late night visits and empty promises sets a healthy boundary and makes your expectations clear. You also balance vulnerability with self protection, which makes your feelings feel real and justified, not dramatic. Overall, your message communicates care, pain, and self respect all at once, and anyone reading it should understand that you aren't asking for perfection your asking for effort, stability, and honesty. If he truly loves you he will change for you and for himself you both were so cute together

awe wait thank you so much I appreciate you like a lot

addison123456 · Answer

@seeker wrote:

I love this phrase .... At the end of the day, final act of pure pious love is LETTING GO it holds deep meaning iykyk

it reminds me of just letting my let go of him to live my hew life

seeker · Answer

@addison123456 wrote:

@seeker wrote:

I love this phrase .... At the end of the day, final act of pure pious love is LETTING GO it holds deep meaning iykyk

it reminds me of just letting my let go of him to live my hew life

besides keeping that eternal lv for that person deep within ... at the end you won by loving the most but at what cost ... by letting him go as Laila Majnu's story they were separated yet they won

addison123456 · Answer

@seeker wrote:

@addison123456 wrote:

@seeker wrote:

I love this phrase .... At the end of the day, final act of pure pious love is LETTING GO it holds deep meaning iykyk

it reminds me of just letting my let go of him to live my hew life

besides keeping that eternal lv for that person deep within ... at the end you won by loving the most but at what cost ... by letting him go as Laila Majnu's story they were separated yet they won

I should really listen to your advice bc maybe then I can feel better