Question

I trusted you. And when things went wrong, you didn’t talk to me you blocked me, told your version of the story to other people, and let me carry the weight of it. Now I’m stuck in this place where I want to fix what broke, but I’m also questioning who I am because someone else got hurt.

I’m not okay with how this was handled. I wasn’t given a chance to be human or to explain. You said you didn’t care made it clear you never would and now suddenly you do. I don’t know if that care is real or just convenient.

What hurts most is being left to sit with guilt and doubt alone, wondering if I’m a bad person for something I was never allowed to talk through.

You know who you are<3

Answer 1

are u okay
I'm here if u want to talk ik we arnt very good or on talking terms but I'm here if u need me

Answer 2

spam

Answer 3

Because you girls pick and choose guys that aren't worth nothing and constantly give them chance after chance after chance. They use and abuse you and then you're surprised when it happens. Girls want a relationship that reminds them of the taste of their vape. They want an extreme high (love) and then they wanna feel the withdrawal (removed love) and continue the cycle with different guys. Guys who do the same shi just look different (to some degree). Guys who are nice and work hard to share their love, that's icky. You think you want it, but you don't. You don't know how to be in a healthy relationship so even if you do give the "good guy" a chance, you hurt him cuz you don't know how to love. Sorry to say, but girls don't like a guy that gives free love and that's just how it is.

There's a billion situations that prove this is true and people don't know how to love or communicate. As much as you may wish you want that kind of guy, that kind of life. Your brain can't and your heart doesn't want it. Your brain can't handle something healthy after being taught to learn and accept toxic behavior, so your brain misses it. Your heart needs it. Without it, it feels fake if it's good so you reject it.

Simple solution: Don't date. You'll hurt yourself constantly and always expect something different, you're just gonna end up being used up if you let them have your body and then the body count starts to sound a little crazy and your reputation gets jaded and tarnished.