Question

what is a positive conflict?

Answer 1

A "conflict" is a disagreement, where each of the two sides feel as though their wants and needs are threatened, by the other side.

A "positive conflict" is a conflict where both sides are able to understand the needs of one another, and come to a solution that works for both of their needs.

Conflict is a part of everyday life. It's unavoidable.

It takes time and effort, in order to turn everyday conflicts into positive conflicts.

Did you know that people in happy marriages are those who are able to form "positive conflicts"?

Answer 2

acually a posotive conflict is to walk away from a fight

Answer 3

Positive conflicts are conflicts where both sides can come to accept one another's values, and form a solution that shows this acceptance.

When we walk away from fights, we don't actually solve anything.

Walking away from fights IS the better choice, in some situations.

But in marriages and other romantic relationships, outright avoiding conflicts can actually be destructive to the health of the relationship.

Fights are a normal part of many relationships.
The best solution is to have "positive conflicts."

That doesn't mean walking away.
It means coming to a solution, where both sides of the fight feel as though their feelings and values matter to one another.