Question

I need advice
if your parents don't like your boyfriend but act like they do and plays games with your head. how do you ge tthrough it???

Answer 1

Confront them! Say i appreciate that your being nice to him but please tell me upfront how you feel. And if they say they don't like him then ask why. Once they tell you why then tell them that you know what your doing and if you get hurt you'll know next time and tell them that you know they are always there for you when you fall but they got to let you fly first.

Answer 2

trust me ive been through it all hun :)

Answer 3

I'd say to listen to your parents. For some reason every time my mom tells me to do something, even if its really bizarre, she somehow is always right ._. You will probably regret it later. Maybe hes a bad kid? If not then your parents just don't want you dating. That's just my opinion though.

Answer 4

It's my step mother shes a nice but when you try to talk about your opinion she thinks your back talkingand my father backs her up so i get yelled at for no reason

Answer 5

I can't talk about my opinion cues they mute there ears cues they think there right.. :(

Answer 6

My boyfriend dosent like them any more cues there fake

Answer 7

Yea i hate when parents do that -.- but idk if there good parents then they know what they're doing. Deep down just think of the good things that they do. Choose parents over your bf. always..

Answer 8

not these one's
I have met parents all around the world.
I move every year and i lose every one every time

Answer 9

no parents are like mine.

Answer 10

I just don't know what to do. Depression takes over with out my bestfriend the one friend i have and they ground me from him.

Answer 11

for no reason :/

Answer 12

Answer these questions.
Do they feed you?
Do they give you shelter?
Do they buy you clothing?
Do they love you?
Do they educate you?
(Don't tell me if they do) but think and answer honestly. Bf aren't everything. There's so many you can find to see which ones right. (Not saying to date a whole bunch of guys lol) You only have one set of parent's treat them like its the last day you'll see them. If they do the questions i gave you, then know that they are only doing it to protect you.

Answer 13

they dont educate me i stay in my room to get away

Answer 14

I see your point.

Answer 15

You don't go to school?

Answer 16

I am home schooled

Answer 17

Me too, but that's what i meant.

Answer 18

mom thinks she helps me but she gets distraced with other things and forgets about me

Answer 19

i plan on my merrying my boyfriend they don't understand that. it's emotional abuse i go through

Answer 20

Remember that you're a child and have not experienced adulthood, but that day will come and you will be able to decide your own things for yourself. Also if you think she is not paying enough attention to you tell her that. It's the only way she'll understand.

Answer 21

How old are you btw?

Answer 22

Pablo <3

Answer 23

16

Answer 24

lol hi mark. cx im a little busy now. haha

Answer 25

Ok so this girls down the streets mom doesnt like me... she dont even know me

Answer 26

:/

Answer 27

But I mean it's hard for people not to like me. But anyways.. Confront him about it.. maybe its the way he acts/dresses/looks?

Answer 28

I mean it could be a simple manner issue?

Answer 29

who my boyfriend? no he's sweet to both of them but my father i balls him like a howk and my boyfriend dosen't like that

Answer 30

O.O Wdf does dat mean? /.\

Answer 31

i dont think id wanna be "balled like a howk"

Answer 32

My father makes my boyfriend unconfortable for no reason and acts as if he's doing nothing wrong

Answer 33

and well i think you're too young to think about marriage this early. If you really think you'll be married to this guy one day, then why not wait? I mean if he really likes you why rush to marriage? Wait till your in your 20's unless you think you won't last that long? and i agree with mark

Answer 34

i agree we r waiting till we are older

Answer 35

Well dads are like that. well. most anyway. they like joshing around or yankin our chains but.. yeah it can get annoying

Answer 36

lol not getting married at sixteen but how am i suppost to stay with him if my parents are playing games

Answer 37

The game's are getting flutteren old. I stayed in my room for a year and they didn't care but as soon as i got a boyfriend that i really want to be with they play games and control

Answer 38

If a man is truly faithful, he would do whatever to be with you. At any cost. Btw, im pretty sure you know this but i hear that dads are really protective over their daughters. c;

Answer 39

Yes

Answer 40

Very true

Answer 41

Ya i know.
It drives me crazy cues i cant go to his house we cant go out unless they know where whtat time ever thing is and what time we will be back pretty much he always has to be at my house but his father dosent like my parents so/...he cant come over ant more my parents sent me to my step mothers mother to get rid of me and when i get back there going to act like angles as if they didnt sream in my face

Answer 42

my like is depressing

Answer 43

*life

Answer 44

running away seems so much better :/

Answer 45

This is what relationships do to you at an early age believe it or not. Depression. Remember that you have two more years until you can do whatever you want. (Not suggesting you do but that's your choice.) Remember that people have far more worst lives. I like to think that before I let anything get to me like that. We have so much to appreciate for but we always think of the things we don't have. I try to think of the positive things...

Answer 46

but i know that's not the way to go

Answer 47

I agree, running away is not the best thing to do at an early age.

Answer 48

so i deal with the bull pellet till its over

Answer 49

As hard as it sounds, yes. Once everything is over and you're free to do what ever you want, all things that have happened will be just a memory and you'll probably think to yourself that you had thought wrong.

Answer 50

Maybe you'll even realize that you had all these problems over a boy. Things will get better though.

Answer 51

..That's what I thought.
But how do I get things clear with the parents?

Answer 52

Tell them how you feel, if that doesn't work consult a good friend that will take the time to listen to your problems. I know you probably have heard that a couple times in your life but it actually does help. I never tried it before, but that's what i feel like it will do. Just think the positive. c:

Answer 53

how will my parents learn there lesson and what they are doing.

Answer 54

Here is the thing, tell them how you feel and if they don't have time to listen. Then they're probably not doing there responsibility as parents. All I can say is be patient, think positive cause shortly everything will be on your hands. Everything will soon be a memory. Running away is never the option.

Answer 55

While these discussions are really important and I definitely recognise that friends support each other - please support each other through the chats or the direct messaging system. Not the site feedback forum. Thanks!

Answer 56

:/

Answer 57

I agree with blues. moonlight if you have any problems feel free to message me c:

Answer 58

Will do

Answer 59

I say have your boyfriend come over to dinner with your parents and tell him to be on his best behavior like he is with you and maybe they will see past his cloths and looks and see his sweet side.

Answer 60

True^

Answer 61

thank you :)

Answer 62

hes just stubborn