topic: If you could change anything about your past what would you change and why?

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PureSoulless · Answer

DoN't BrEaK iNtO sHuT dOwN FaCiLiTiEs. (Pretty self explanatory.)

somnium · Answer

I would change nearly my whole past if I could. I've been through a lot, but I have a few people I couldn't bear to lose. I wouldn't want a straight reset, but pretty damn close is good for me. in simplicity, my whole life I've wanted to be a normal kid but I can't get that

hannahj · Answer

If I could change anything in my past I would change my life around. I would stand up to the bullies who bullied me, I would tell the truth more often, I would appreciate everything I have. I would start over and never lie in the first place. Ik some of these things I can actually do in the present and future but quite honestly I would prefer to do these things in the past so I can be a better person in the present and future.

Darling · Answer

if I could change something in my past it would probably the day I meet him. I wish to God I never met him, or admit I liked him. I should've just ignored him and saw the red flags. I was such an idiot for falling in love with him. him being my first love. if I could I would have walked the other way and never looked back.

Lilly2010 · Answer

If i could change something in my past it would probably be the day i met my abusive ex...I wish i never met him,or even liked him in the first place. I didn't see the red flags...i should have believe my friends when they said he wasn't a good person...i was too dumb to see,but i had to get hurt in order to see that. He did teacher me what love shouldn't be...i am grateful that i found someone who truely loves me for me and won't try to change me...like he did.

LaBandido · Answer

@puresoulless wrote:

DoN't BrEaK iNtO sHuT dOwN FaCiLiTiEs. (Pretty self explanatory.)

LMAO THATS RELATABLE.

LaBandido · Answer

@somnium wrote:

I would change nearly my whole past if I could. I've been through a lot, but I have a few people I couldn't bear to lose. I wouldn't want a straight reset, but pretty damn close is good for me. in simplicity, my whole life I've wanted to be a normal kid but I can't get that

I understand what you mean. Sometimes, life deals us the worst hands. It’s up to you, what you make of it. You can never go backwards; either you stay wya or you make the best of what you got, and move forward. Not all of us were born into mom/dad households, got fed guaranteed meals, had everything given to us. Some of us had to grow up way too fast.. (I’ma just let you know, ik what it feels like. Dm me if u ever needa vent. I’ll always be there for you. Stranger or not.) -santi

Lilly2010 · Answer

@labandido wrote:

@puresoulless wrote:

DoN't BrEaK iNtO sHuT dOwN FaCiLiTiEs. (Pretty self explanatory.)

LMAO THATS RELATABLE.

Lmao i've done the same shi and it was hella fun....but we got caught.

Lilly2010 · Answer

@labandido wrote:

@somnium wrote:

I would change nearly my whole past if I could. I've been through a lot, but I have a few people I couldn't bear to lose. I wouldn't want a straight reset, but pretty damn close is good for me. in simplicity, my whole life I've wanted to be a normal kid but I can't get that

I understand what you mean. Sometimes, life deals us the worst hands. It’s up to you, what you make of it. You can never go backwards; either you stay wya or you make the best of what you got, and move forward. Not all of us were born into mom/dad households, got fed guaranteed meals, had everything given to us. Some of us had to grow up way too fast.. (I’ma just let you know, ik what it feels like. Dm me if u ever needa vent. I’ll always be there for you. Stranger or not.) -santi

thats facts and nice of you to help them.

LaBandido · Answer

@hannahj wrote:

If I could change anything in my past I would change my life around. I would stand up to the bullies who bullied me, I would tell the truth more often, I would appreciate everything I have. I would start over and never lie in the first place. Ik some of these things I can actually do in the present and future but quite honestly I would prefer to do these things in the past so I can be a better person in the present and future.

All you can do is put the past behind you. Keep moving forward. The ones who bullied you? Strive in success while they stagger below you. You belong at the top. Now it’s up to you to use their negativity and bad memories as motivation to put yourself there. Remind yourself of where you don’t wanna be. You belong in success. You got this Hannah; i believe in you. -santi

somnium · Answer

@labandido wrote:

@somnium wrote:

I would change nearly my whole past if I could. I've been through a lot, but I have a few people I couldn't bear to lose. I wouldn't want a straight reset, but pretty damn close is good for me. in simplicity, my whole life I've wanted to be a normal kid but I can't get that

I understand what you mean. Sometimes, life deals us the worst hands. It’s up to you, what you make of it. You can never go backwards; either you stay wya or you make the best of what you got, and move forward. Not all of us were born into mom/dad households, got fed guaranteed meals, had everything given to us. Some of us had to grow up way too fast.. (I’ma just let you know, ik what it feels like. Dm me if u ever needa vent. I’ll always be there for you. Stranger or not.) -santi

thanks man I appreciate it

LaBandido · Answer

@darling wrote:

if I could change something in my past it would probably the day I meet him. I wish to God I never met him, or admit I liked him. I should've just ignored him and saw the red flags. I was such an idiot for falling in love with him. him being my first love. if I could I would have walked the other way and never looked back.

Sometimes things aren’t meant to be. God decided he would have hurt you more than he did in the present. Make the most of what happened, and make him regret losing you. Keep moving forward. I believe in you. -santi

LaBandido · Answer

@lilly2010 wrote:

If i could change something in my past it would probably be the day i met my abusive ex...I wish i never met him,or even liked him in the first place. I didn't see the red flags...i should have believe my friends when they said he wasn't a good person...i was too dumb to see,but i had to get hurt in order to see that. He did teacher me what love shouldn't be...i am grateful that i found someone who truely loves me for me and won't try to change me...like he did.

I’m glad you went through that. Sometimes in order to understand, we have to feel the pain in order to avoid it. He never deserved you. You’re in a way better state now that he’s out of your life i’m assuming, and i’m so proud of you for moving on. It wasn’t meant to be. Keep moving forward @lilly2010 I trust one day you will be successful as hell. -santi

Lilly2010 · Answer

@labandido wrote:

@lilly2010 wrote:

If i could change something in my past it would probably be the day i met my abusive ex...I wish i never met him,or even liked him in the first place. I didn't see the red flags...i should have believe my friends when they said he wasn't a good person...i was too dumb to see,but i had to get hurt in order to see that. He did teacher me what love shouldn't be...i am grateful that i found someone who truely loves me for me and won't try to change me...like he did.

I’m glad you went through that. Sometimes in order to understand, we have to feel the pain in order to avoid it. He never deserved you. You’re in a way better state now that he’s out of your life i’m assuming, and i’m so proud of you for moving on. It wasn’t meant to be. Keep moving forward @lilly2010 I trust one day you will be successful as hell. -santi

thanks i appreciate that. and yes i am.