Question

I need advice please

Answer 1

on what?

Answer 2

the issue I am having is that I have a job teaching more like volunteering and the main room I vollenteer in is my old volleyball teacher.. he has a son and his son and the teacher are trying to hook us up to like date and stuff but my only problem is that it might mess up my relationship with the father and or just might be weird in all but the son is a really nice guy and this all sounds confusing but I just don't know what to make / think of the whole situation

Answer 3

volunteer*

Answer 4

ehhhh
my advice - don't get into physical relationships when it is even somewhat connected to your job
just to be safe

Answer 5

O_O whale then.......

Answer 6

yeah that's what im saying but I am only 14 and the guys dad actually wants us to go out. and seems to have no problem with it

Answer 7

psh too young girl, so yeah don't go out with him plz

Answer 8

I think it is odd that a Teacher actually wants to hook up his son with someone. Being younger and all o _ o My opinio

Answer 9

Opinion*

Answer 10

Well, she never said how old the son is... but no matter the age, there are a few reasons why girls should avoid anything deeper than a friendship for as lon as possible.

Answer 11

But this site isn't the best site for dating advice, because this is a Study site for school

Answer 12

his son is the same age as me he just don't want his son to be alone

Answer 13

DONT do it idc how much you like this kid, i dated this kid that was my best friend for 5 years we dated for 2 months, and since we broke up, we haven't talked since. Just be a really good friend to him for a while. it Could screw up something really good if yall date...

Answer 14

I know its not dating advice I jst had to get something off my mind

Answer 15

no offense but that is kind of sad....my dad would never do that...

Answer 16

its ok but thanks for all the advice yall. I really appreciate it :)

Answer 17

Looking at it from a pure neurological standpoint:

The prefrontal cortex helps regulate impulse control. Until it is fully developed it is easy to drift off topic, etc. This includes emotional control.

In females, the prefrontal cortex finishes development at 23. Males it is 25.

In females, memory has very strong links to emotions. The more flux there is in emotions, the more a female will remember the emotions and not other things, like what is being studied.

Fluctuations in emotions are very common in relationships. This is especially true for teens.

One cause of emotional fluctuations in females is the impulsive actions of males. Well, guess what helps males stop being s impulsive! Their prefrontal cortex!

Therefore, it is best for females to avoid deep relationships in times of learning until the prefrontal cortex of themselves and their partner are fully developed.

Answer 18

ok that is good advice you all gave good advice and thank you for that.